lovebunny Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I was dating this guy for 16 years and our relationship was kind of rocky. He had a problem with drugs and drinking and did blame me for everything that he did. He lost his job and was about to be homeless and I was willing to help him. At first he said that he wanted my help and then he told me something else. We were on good terms before that for about 2 weeks and then one day he told me that he cheated on me. I forgave him that was before he lost his job. Then when that happen he went for two weeks without calling me. I did try to see why and he told me that he didn't want to talk to me. I am sure that he was cheating on me again. The last time that I did talk to him was 2 days ago and he said that he was seeing someone but he kept taking my calls and calling me back. It didn't seem like he was seeing anybody. My ex has a mental problem due to drug use and gets angry at just about anything so that is why I think that he was just trying to make me think that he was seeing somebody because he has lied to me before about things. He was also abusive but he never did hit me he would call me names and didn't trust me. He always thought that I was cheating on him with my male friends. He didn't like my black friends at all. I do still love him but I don't know if he will take me back. I also care about him and I told him that he could still live with me if he had nowhere to go. But he still said that he was seeing someone. What should I do if I want him back?
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