Marianis Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Last Sunday i decided not to think about him.. not try to look at his fb.. or his gf... his parents.. his brother…. or anyone related to him. …. What did I do today!! .. I did look through all of them.. and I must tell you that.. I have at least 3 facebook pages.. In 2 im bloked by him and in all of them Im not friends of anyone … I feel like a crazy stalker when I do this.. but I really wish I could have some contact with him! .. I know it’s sad and … and I just felt /feel really bad right after I look at all of those facebooks!! … :’( .. I know I have to understand that I’m not in his life anymore… it’s too hard! … why can I be in his life again!? .. SOMEONE PLEASE ERASE MY MEMORY!! .. PLEASE!!!! make him go away!
mike111 Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 SOMEONE PLEASE ERASE MY MEMORY!! .. PLEASE!!!! make him go away! Give it more time. it will get better I don't have a facebook page. But does a person need a facebook page to see another person's facebook page? If so, can you delete your own? Or are they important to you? mike
Author Marianis Posted October 13, 2011 Author Posted October 13, 2011 you do need a facebook page.. and i have close all of them several times! .. i just keep opening them again! :S .. i mean my personal fb i can not close cause my friends are there! .. and i wanna keep in touch with them but the others are just for him .. im afraid that if i close the fb pages again .. i will open it soon anyway! :S does that make sence?!
Author Marianis Posted October 13, 2011 Author Posted October 13, 2011 yeah!! .. i just found the perfect solution!! .. everytime i feel the need to stalk my ex! .. ill do Push ups! .. (i hate them).. so i will really think about stalking.. if i dont want to do the push ups then .. i wont look hahaha .. if i do them i will forget about it after i do them cause then ill feel good with the endorfins ill get with the exercise ... i guess it can work! .. ill try it out
eleanorhurting Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I closed my personal facebook months ago because i realized facebook does more harm than good when you are healing. And because I dont like facebook in general! Anyway i would still sometimes open it and get on my exes page and everytime i would see things that would set me back! So i erased him and blocked him. I havent gotten on facebook in a long time! It takes will power! and you know what? ever since i dont have facebook i feel like im much closer to my real friends. I know the people that matter in my life will call, text and email as opposed to just liking my statuses and not contacting me outside of facebook. It has been good. Maybe you should try it if you are having such a hard time with all the facebooks. I understand you I really do. Trust me i have been there. But yeah life without facebook is... liberating
Author Marianis Posted October 13, 2011 Author Posted October 13, 2011 ok ok! .. i did it! .. well i just desactivete 2 of them.... the other one i can not because i have friends that i met long time ago and since they are from other countries we sent messages from there! ... but the other 2 are gone now! .. he blocked me from my main fb so i wont be able to see him! ... thnks!
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