If anyone wants to see how this plays out, Ill be the guinnea pig!

[poorguy]

After more than a year and a half or so...My ex has texted and emailed. She had gigs worse than gigs itself could have it!!!! I was in NYC last weekend. A really pretty girlfriend of mine was with me. We went to the MET to see a display or two that we love. Well anyway out of a think 8 million people in NYC We ran into a friend of hers. She looked so suprised to see me? So Im wondering why my ex would care?

 

I have moved on...I dont have a gf per se, but Im all good and 100% happy!!! Love shack helped me out so much when I was down...so I figured now that its been a while and im over it id see why. Breadcrumbs dont apply to this man any longer!!

 

So if anyone cares ill keep the new as to what happens posted.

 

Emotional investment=0% with her..I wouldnt allow myself!!!

 

On a side note I do wonder why all girls cant be like Graceful sometimes

[EgoJoe]

Haha, nice. Spill the beans, what did she say and what did you do? I'm presuming nothing thus far?

[LelouchIsZero]

On a side note I do wonder why all girls cant be like Graceful sometimes

Oh god, haha.

 

But anyway, congrats on getting as far as you have. If you think you can handle doing it, then go for it .

[poorguy]

Ok..So I didnt bother updating until I had something worth posting. Well it turns out her little life that I had no problem letting her go live (actually it bothered me, but I kept my head up) isnt what she thought it would be. More importantly all the fantastic advice she got from all of her amazing friends..wasnt exactly as great as she thought it was..neither were they. Her new amazing party friends would give her advice and I guess influence her to suit their agendas as well as hers at the time. Ive been through this before so although it hurt it was/is recogizable to me.

 

So anyway I spoke with her. She brought up things about us that I remember, but havent thought about in forever..little things. We were always perfect before the new crowd got involved. Well anyway Im not 100% sure what Im going to do next. She is dropping subtle hints about us trying. Thats how she has always worked. She still without a doubt has a piece of my heart....

 

Ive been through this same thing before, but in both of the other cases I had totally moved on. We just became friends more or less.

 

Mmmmm...what to do what to do?

[poorguy]

Oh I forgot to say...Im not looking for advice per se, I want this to be more of a "this is what the outcome has been" thread. I do love her still, but on the same hand could care less if I saw her kissing someone..as an example. If it turns out she truly deeply is over all the BS that was introduced into her life and be a lady...well, Id really have to think about that!