ccnaboy2000 Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Well its been 2 weeks now since she left for another guy. Haven't heard a peep out of her. I think I'm hitting my anger phase. What a waste of 1.5yrs. Funny story though, I was looking for a new bed today on craigslist. I found a great one, told him I wanted to pick it up.. He gives me his address... and low and behold he lives 5 houses down from her! Out of 1.2 million people in my city what are the odds I find a guy selling a bed I want a few houses down? I digress. This sucks.. I still dont understand the whole "I want to be with you, it sucks we cant be together right now" "I miss you I cant live without you" "I dont have time for a relationship, I wish i did" then a couple days later is in a full blown relationship and I never existed. I'm pissed, all lies!.... but I'm doing much better.
ken_25 Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Wow, yeah.. that's pretty crazy. I'm glad you're doing better right now, keep it up.
TheDovic Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 It's so typical GIGS behaviour though! Plus this other guy's clearly a rebound, so don't be surprised for them to be super loved up in no time only to break up a few months down the line!!!
Author ccnaboy2000 Posted October 13, 2011 Author Posted October 13, 2011 You know it's funny. I actually reached out to my previous ex the other day. It was a very intense relationship, and a very intense breakup. I owed her over 12k, but at the end I only owed her 3k. Our last conversation involved my now ex, ripping the phone from my hand and telling her to stop calling me. I never heard from her again, it's been 2 years since that breakup, and 1yr since we've spoken. So I signed up on okcupid, and guess who my #1 match is... my ex ex. So I texted her about it, she obviously deleted my number, but remembered my digits she was like "Jason...?" So a phone call immediately ensued once she figured out it was me. It was a good phone call! (Short backstory, she kept me around as the doormat while she persued someone else... I couldn't take it, I went NC, and stopped paying her. I told her in the end it wouldn't work out with this new guy.... and it didnt they broke up constantly over the course of a year! She's been single 4 mos or so now?) Anyways, she was almost on the verge of tears as we were talking since memories started flooding back apparently. I hung up the phone and she texted me about how great it is that we are finally talking again and how she is smiling and stuff. We are meeting up for coffee. So I guess I will say this, exes will never forget you. After a year or so most of the bad memories fade. Would she have ever contact me, probably not, I've been blocked on FB this whole year and she obviously deleted my number.... But she welcomed my phone call. Either way, I'm going to set things right, and at least pay her the 3k I owe her, and see what happens, it's a drop in the bucket to me anyway.
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