mattymx Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 My story.....Met an incredible girl earlier in the year, i had been datin loads but no1 match her for spark! we got together and were very intimate and happy for 6 months. She told me she loved me and that had never said it 1st in past relationships. everything was soooo good! both very clearly in love. Prior to our relationship she had booked a 3 week trip to Thailand during summer holidays (shes a teacher) she was so smitten with me she dint wanna go but I encouraged her too, I mean what an experience it wud be. so she went and stayed in contact thruout, 1st week sent lovely txt about me and her. when she returned she had a different perspective on life (thought it was just holiday blues) anyway things we talked about b4 holiday were dismissed by her and she wanted to go around the Uk on weekends to visit old uni mates, then says we spend to much time together? (im a copper so not easy to find quality time working shifts). I confronted her about this n we split up. She kept in constant contact for a month but said she was so confused with things....one nite she aked to meet, i said yes, then she said she had plans. so i called her and asked why she was txting me so much? she couldnt answer n hung up. then she txt me saying she wont txt anymore but i can txt her and not to fall out. I gave it a week of NC n txt her, she seemed defensive but said i cud txt her still. I again txt a week later to she if she wanted to meet up? she said yes but would txt me what nite she was free...........and she has never txt me. this ggirl has got me so confused but im not over her 6 weeks on which doesnt help.......shes not the type to date straight away n even if she does she wud only see how well i treated her. is it time to let go?
Author mattymx Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Quick update if anyone ever wonders whats happened. Went into NC and she got in touch few weeks later, met up at movies was plesant and jovial. (had to meet her to get my backdraft dvd back) freindly texts for couple of week, i asked her to a movie she said yes but she'd get back to me.........and never did. went NC again n stayed off facebook for a week.....she must of notice as she messaged me on facebook chat at the 1st opportunity. but i dint reply til late n she fell out with me n ignored me. (iwas actually ok wiv this). then news got to her that i finally got the job ive been after, she text straight away being all nice n friendly. not contact since, im not gonna initiate it either. i still miss her a llot but feel stronger day by day. learning to live with the fact she may always give me butterflies bbut for me its out of sight out of mind (stay off facebook....its a killer) Ihave to move to london for 6 mnths in the new year so its probably for the best we havent got back together. Never say never but im the one thats got away.....not her
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