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Within the last week, my ex has been emailing me on a regular basis. It started out with him talking about really irrelevant things to which I barely responded to. Then after a few exchanges he started talking about the good times we had, and how he'll always remember them, yada yada. He's trying to meet up next week. I was the one who broke up with him, we have not spoken in 2 months, and he was really cold and mean last time we spoke saying how happy he is without me. Do you think he could still be interested or is he just trying to get closure?

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In my opinion, i dont want to get your hopes up and its important you dont go in expecting ANYTHING BUT I think he still has feelings for you. Its pretty common for a dumpee to go through a phase of NC to heal themselves and even an anger phase where theyre convinced you were awful to them. Id say given the fact that you dumped him and he was distant like that then his closure would have been to just move on and continue NC. the fact that hes reaching out says he wants more

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Do you think he could still be interested or is he just trying to get closure?

either...but since you jettisoned him then keep your distance and tell him to get lost

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either...but since you jettisoned him then keep your distance and tell him to get lost

 

yep.

 

you broke up with him, why are you still talking to him?

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