Is this a bad sign or not?

[maysj18]

I've been casually hanging out with this guy for a few weeks. It all started when a mutual friend told him I thought he was attractive, and while that's not the way I wanted him to find out, I just went with it. Turned out he found the middle school approach endearing, so I was good to go. When we talk, it's great. We talk for hours and have a good time. When we hang out, it's equally as great. He knows I'm a virgin and has never pushed the issue or tried anything. Sunday night he stayed the night out of the blue. He wanted to hang out and so he comes up to my room, we talk and cuddle and then he asks for his phone so he could set his alarm for the morning. Random, but I was pretty happy about it. I didn't expect him to stay with me.

 

The weird thing about that night was that we didn't kiss. We haven't kissed at all actually and what better time to put the moves on me? I've been the aggressor mostly, because I was the one that gave him my number, etc. It's evened out since, but maybe he still expected me to make the first move? He's pretty experienced, so I figured he would do it since that's what I'm used to. Obviously I feel like he wouldn't have decided to stay over or even hang out at all if he wasn't interested, but I was still so nervous of getting rejected if I tried to kiss him. My thought process went a bit like this Okay, go..wait! He'd kiss you if he wanted to. Do you all think it was a respect/shy thing? Or what?

 

Also, as well as we get along, we don't talk regularly at all. Maybe every other day? I'm not super creep or anything, but I love to text and hang out, especially if I like someone. He seems more reserved in that sense and kept to himself. Is that a bad sign? I've seen a lot of threads similar to this and the main answer is "if he's this distant now, why further it?" and I just feel like that may or may not apply here because we have only been hanging out for a few weeks. It's not like we've established anything. Should I just be patient?