mike588 Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 Ok guys you know my story. I used to leave my ex. sweet love notes on OCASSION, say, in her purse, jeans pocket where ever she would find them later. She LOVED finding them and told me it made her so happy, nobodys ever done that for me etc.etc. Anyway I remembered I left 2 notes behind that I wrote in June that she won't find until winter really settles in,, 2 more months here. They read,, your so beautiful, I love you,I miss you so much blah blah blah. I now wish I would'nt of wrote/left them and I DON'T want her to find them, WHY, Im not sure,,Maybe I don't want to look pathetic,,,,to have some dignity left and after she reads those lame notes I'll look pathetic!! None of us want our exs. to remember us that way regardless if we still love them or hate them. I KNOW I should'nt really care but my curiousity is getting the best of me on her reaction when she finds them. I'm tempted to call her sister and have her remove them, her sis. was extremely pissed at her for dumping me and I believe she would understand. No I'm not hoping this will make her teary eyed and come running back to me,, She's happy now and done with me and I know it!!!! and have accepted it! Should I call her sis. and have them removed? ?? I'm NOT going to ask any questions about her, how she's doing etc. Anyone else had a similar situation? Is this somewhat breaking N.C. by contacting a family member?
M2155 Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 I now wish I would'nt of wrote/left them and I DON'T want her to find them, WHY, Im not sure,,Maybe I don't want to look pathetic,,,,to have some dignity left and after she reads those lame notes I'll look pathetic!! You won't look lame or pathetic. You'll be the guy who used to do sweet little things like that. I'm almost sure that's the thought she will have. Should I call her sis. and have them removed? ?? I'm NOT going to ask any questions about her' date=' how she's doing etc.[/quote'] Absolutely not. That sounds kinda cheesy to be thinking about that 2 months later.
Author mike588 Posted October 11, 2011 Author Posted October 11, 2011 Thanks again, you have always been so helpful. Glad you think I won't look pathetic. Guess I just pictured her different when she finds them,,, like she would just laugh at them and look down on me,,, All the other notes apparently did'nt do/mean anything. Thanks again. I won't contact her sis.
TheDovic Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 NNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just leave it dude, no good will come out of contacting her sis. Worst case scenario your ex finds them and throws them out, best case it makes her miss you. If you contact her sis though you're going to look desperate. Don't do this to yourself Mike, keep your value, it's so much better for your healing and as a bonus it makes you a lot more attractive!!!
RockGuy87 Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 It would only look bad if 2 months later you are still thinking that much about it that you remember that. If anything she might remember how sweet you used to be to her.
Author mike588 Posted October 12, 2011 Author Posted October 12, 2011 NNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just leave it dude, no good will come out of contacting her sis. Worst case scenario your ex finds them and throws them out, best case it makes her miss you. If you contact her sis though you're going to look desperate. Don't do this to yourself Mike, keep your value, it's so much better for your healing and as a bonus it makes you a lot more attractive!!! That's the whole thing,,, I don't want her to miss me,,, well maybe alittle but not enough for her to come running back!!!!!!!!!!
EgoJoe Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Heh, I once ordered a really expensive boquet of flowers several months in advance of Valentines day before my current Ex and I broke up for the first time because I was really really flush with cash at the time and on cloud nine etc. I forgot about it and we had been broken up for about four months by the time she got them and when she came back a year plus later (we were both really young at the time as opposed to just young, haha) I told her...I sent those before we broke up so I wouldn't forget and because I had alot of extra dough at the time. She said that those were the only flowers she has ever gotten and that her Mom told her that she was jealous etc. She dried one and saved it, the whole nine yards. Looking back. I laugh at myself. Your ex won't remember it as pathetic and she'll very likely look back and realize that you placed those notes before things went downhill and definitely reminisce.
Author mike588 Posted October 12, 2011 Author Posted October 12, 2011 Yea I can only hope she remembers how much I loved and cared for her and treated her so well, but she blew it and there is no going back now!! Her Loss!
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