marlo Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 Hi guys, I'm new on here and new to LDR's. We're both from the UK and met at university last year. She was offered an internship in NYC and moved out there almost 7 weeks ago (i know that isn't long compared to some of you). I go out there in 3 weeks but we had our first ever fight last night. The reason being is every now and then we arrange to skype after work (so I have to stay up until at least 3 or 4am), but then she sometimes goes out with her friends and doesn't tell me until 10-15mins before we were going to chat (like 2am for me). I understand that she needs to do that being alone in a new city and she needs to meet other people and not sit in chatting to me every night but I get so frustrated about being ditched when I've made the effort, and I've never done it to her. So last night (via txt ) I said some things I shouldn't have about her not making an effort to make this work, even though I know she is! That obviously really, really pissed her off. Later, I calmed down and we managed to chat when she got home so I apologised as much as I can over skype and we chatted for a bit, we're both missing each other and finding it frustrating not seeing each other. Usually we would txt each other all day but today she asked me not to. What can I do to help us move passed this and continue looking forward to seeing each other? I don't really want to send her a long email about how sorry I am and how much I love her because it's just not personal. I thought maybe I could send some flowers to her office? Does anyone have any suggestions on what gesture I could send her? Thanks. (oh and what does OS stand for?)
cracker2011 Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 email he a picture of yourself and a song link or what she means to you. worked like a treat for me. if you mean SO instead of OS ..it means significant other! took me a while to figure that out too
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