El Brujo Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Perhaps you other posters need to stop pretending that you're Doctor Ruth and accept Blondiegirl for who she is. She's not "broken", so don't try to "fix" her by telling her to keep trying sex until she learns to like it. Shame on all of you for trying to make her feel gypped!!! If you're reading this post, Blondiegirl, never mind all these quacks... you can find a place of shelter at http://www.asexuality.org/en/ . I've been a poster there for 7 years. You don't have to put up with heckling from highly sexual people... I know I don't.
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 I'm not going to heckle you, but if you are asexual for real, and your boyfriend is a sexual person, deep unhappiness is in store for you unless one of you changes. Sex IS a very important part of a relationship if you are a sexual being. I think that if you want to keep this relationship, the burden falls more on you to try to explore your own potential sexuality than it does on your bf to turn his back on his known sexual nature. Why? Well, you got into a sexual relationship with him in the first place. Just try a sex therapist and see if you can find your own sexual nature. Or, break up before this erodes your relationship into a bad thing.
Jynxx Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Perhaps you other posters need to stop pretending that you're Doctor Ruth and accept Blondiegirl for who she is. She's not "broken", so don't try to "fix" her by telling her to keep trying sex until she learns to like it. Shame on all of you for trying to make her feel gypped!!! If you're reading this post, Blondiegirl, never mind all these quacks... you can find a place of shelter at http://www.asexuality.org/en/ . I've been a poster there for 7 years. You don't have to put up with heckling from highly sexual people... I know I don't. Funny how this message was your 69th post:p Besides, op isn't asexual, she enjoyed sex earlier, she'll need to find out what changed and how to change it back.
Professor X Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Well, 2 options here, either you're asexual - in which case there's not much you can do and your RS will end sooner or later. or your BF doesn't know how to satisfy you - which might be the case considering you have experienced few orgasms until now. I suggest you try and please yourself first, find out what does it to you, how you would wanna be touched. If you do know those stuff, tell your BF, make up sessions of him pleasing only you and see how it goes.
SoulFinger Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Well, 2 options here, either you're asexual - in which case there's not much you can do and your RS will end sooner or later. or your BF doesn't know how to satisfy you - which might be the case considering you have experienced few orgasms until now. I suggest you try and please yourself first, find out what does it to you, how you would wanna be touched. If you do know those stuff, tell your BF, make up sessions of him pleasing only you and see how it goes. I totally agree
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