lostsoul123 Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 i made the most terrible mistake i ever have done, me and my ex been texting but yesterday i decided to move on and star to ignore her she text all day saying she dream about me......and certain tv programs remind her of me.... i totally ignore her text but today i have this big text saying all this stuff that she dosent get why im acting like this if a was the one to want to be friends.... as i wake up i saw it but dont anwser ....but then i got this urge to tell her what really is going on and it is i want to move on stop this friendly thing cuz we even have sex and is hurting me the way shes acting. so i text her .....if she can call me when she can. she never answer.............................. i panicked star calling her ..SHE never PICKs UP......i was crazyyy!! so i got into my car and start driving to her home....i go to her door ...we start talkin i start shaking nervious and asked her why she dint answer she told me cuz i ignored her all day ect ect...........as i start responding i did the unthinkable start asking her what she feels for me, she say she misses me and all and i tell her I WANT TO BE WITH YOU AGAIN ...!!! she rejected me telling me she want to me alone shes more relax and focus on her work and studies and with me shes no relax and it does bad to her (( i keep asking why and why and why. i fell again and i knew it please people gimme your advise
redblack66 Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 i made the most terrible mistake i ever have done, me and my ex been texting but yesterday i decided to move on and star to ignore her she text all day saying she dream about me......and certain tv programs remind her of me.... i totally ignore her text but today i have this big text saying all this stuff that she dosent get why im acting like this if a was the one to want to be friends.... as i wake up i saw it but dont anwser ....but then i got this urge to tell her what really is going on and it is i want to move on stop this friendly thing cuz we even have sex and is hurting me the way shes acting. so i text her .....if she can call me when she can. she never answer.............................. i panicked star calling her ..SHE never PICKs UP......i was crazyyy!! so i got into my car and start driving to her home....i go to her door ...we start talkin i start shaking nervious and asked her why she dint answer she told me cuz i ignored her all day ect ect...........as i start responding i did the unthinkable start asking her what she feels for me, she say she misses me and all and i tell her I WANT TO BE WITH YOU AGAIN ...!!! she rejected me telling me she want to me alone shes more relax and focus on her work and studies and with me shes no relax and it does bad to her (( i keep asking why and why and why. i fell again and i knew it please people gimme your advise You made a mistake going there. Go NC.
TheDovic Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 Dude she's freaking out about her future and wants to know you'll be there as a backup! That's why she sends you messages like this, to make sure you'll hang around. It doesn't have to be this way though dude, you just need to stop following your gut feeling to tell her you love her and need her! Your gut will point you in the wrong direction most of the time, trust me. She is confused at the minute but the more you keep acting like this the easier her decision to leave you will be, so stop it right now. Be a challenge for her. In short read David DeAngelo's "Attraction isn't a choice." I'm sure people think I am David DeAngelo lol, but I really believe his book is eye opening for us guys who just don't seem to have a clue!!! (If you don't have a Kindle, download the free app for your phone or pc from Amazon as this is an ebook)
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