dt311unity Posted October 11, 2011 Posted October 11, 2011 I dated a girl for two years. She is a great girl, but had some issues I couldn't deal with anymore, I ended up splitting up with her. The things I liked about her were that she was funny, honest, trustworthy, and was fun to do things with. The bad things were a drinking problem, a little immature (I'm 28, she is 23), and she is unsure of what she wants to do with her life (career, goals) and still lives at home with her mom and sister. When I split up with her I didn't talk to her for about a month and a half. Recently, I have talked to her a few times in the last few weeks. She has worked on her drinking problem and seems to be a little bit more mature about things now. She talked to me about wanting a second chance recently. I told her I didn't know if that would be a good idea. I started dating a different girl for the past three months. She is 25 and is a great girl. She is smart, honest, trustworthy, is taking grad school classes, and has a good head on her shoulders. I enjoy spending time with her but I still feel like something is missing with the relationship still. It almost seems like she just isn't exciting enough for me maybe. She is already starting to talk about future plans for us and getting more serious, I explained to her already that I wasn't ready yet to get into something real serious. Part of me still has feelings for my ex, even though I just don't know if that would work out again. I think things are too different with where we both are at in life. She is an awesome girl though and lately I just have been constantly thinking what if I make a mistake and should give her another chance. Basically I am looking for some insight from an outsider on the situation.
mike111 Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 It almost seems like she just isn't exciting enough for me maybe. From my own past experience, having someone who isn't that exciting is a good thing. She really sounds stable and reliable though. So give it more time. I think you might still be pining away for your ex-gf. And that might last a few more months. mike
Farrah Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 As the old saying goes. All that glitters is a bunch of whores...Vegas is full of them.But if you want a respectable lady who you can marry one day all the bling bling is shortlived and is NOT WIFE MATERIAL.We go back to traditions, values, old school that lasts. Sadly, men dont value till its gone and judge women by how good they are in bed...thats when I say brother think with your head not your... I dated a girl for two years. She is a great girl, but had some issues I couldn't deal with anymore, I ended up splitting up with her. The things I liked about her were that she was funny, honest, trustworthy, and was fun to do things with. The bad things were a drinking problem, a little immature (I'm 28, she is 23), and she is unsure of what she wants to do with her life (career, goals) and still lives at home with her mom and sister. When I split up with her I didn't talk to her for about a month and a half. Recently, I have talked to her a few times in the last few weeks. She has worked on her drinking problem and seems to be a little bit more mature about things now. She talked to me about wanting a second chance recently. I told her I didn't know if that would be a good idea. I started dating a different girl for the past three months. She is 25 and is a great girl. She is smart, honest, trustworthy, is taking grad school classes, and has a good head on her shoulders. I enjoy spending time with her but I still feel like something is missing with the relationship still. It almost seems like she just isn't exciting enough for me maybe. She is already starting to talk about future plans for us and getting more serious, I explained to her already that I wasn't ready yet to get into something real serious. Part of me still has feelings for my ex, even though I just don't know if that would work out again. I think things are too different with where we both are at in life. She is an awesome girl though and lately I just have been constantly thinking what if I make a mistake and should give her another chance. Basically I am looking for some insight from an outsider on the situation.
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