Does No Contact Work on the 2nd Try-After the Booty Call & Her Finding Dirt from Past

[dodgers42]

I get a drunk call from her late sat night. I pick it up and listen to her drunk and she is talking smack so i hung up.

 

She called me hungover in the morning to apologize and I make the mistake and went over. I knew it sounded more like a booty call apology and I bit it and said what wrong could go from me getting some and maybe this will get her to start thinking more.

 

So after a few rounds, I end up dropping her off at a bar she was going to meet her friends at. We left it as that and it was done.

 

Today I get a text from her referencing an article I copied to my Side business http://www.altosoles.com that references this article about having sex with other girls to get over an ex that I posted 3 months ago for enjoyment to my readers and subscribers. ( I took it down from my side biz site for now because of her freaking out)

 

http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/139b_dating_advice.html

 

She somehow found it relevant today to check this side business website which she barely knows about and found that article that I posted. I rang her and told her that this article was posted in the past, etc and has no relevance on us. She didn't buy it and kept on talking about how I was a liar in the pass, etc and how I was the devil, slut, black cloud over her and that I need to move on because its not going to be with her. I ended the conversation saying, that I've done good in the past 2 months and should deserve not the pass to continue to be a tombstone over my head and to ring me when she can give me a little bit of trust back to make this work.

 

Drama, so what happens now? Does No Contact Work on the 2nd try considering this incident? There are deep trust issues and she is insecure and leans her decisions on emotions more than logic.

[wilsonx]

What are you asking?

 

One thing you need to learn is not to date insecure people! Instant red flag! Run away. People that date insecure people are insecure in themselves. Water seeks its own level as the expression goes.

 

You do not have to explain anything to her. You arent dating her, the relationship is over. I almost fell for this when my ex stalked me online on a hookup website and sent me 5 fake pictures of another girl. That sent me in a tailspin for about 2 weeks but just keep NC and sleep with whomever you want to sleep with

[dodgers42]

Thanks wilsonx,

 

You sound right, she mentioned to me at one point her ex bf was insecure and they dated for 7 years.

 

I've lied to her to avoid having the discussion about going to a bachelor party or just want to party with the guys. She found about all these lies and uses this every time things are doing good. As they say, if you go digging for dirt, you find dirt. I bet I can find some dirt the same way she has but I choose not too.

 

I know NC is a way for me to get me stronger about myself and I know it get's your ex back calling because she did.

But I have to ask the question, would the fear of losing me while doing NC break her from being insecure about our relationship and ready to move forward?

 

or is the only reason why shes reaching out to me because of insecurity?