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Hey, i joined today to see if anyone can help me

So i am half italian, I met a guy on holiday in Italy this year. We met at the pool, and he used to flirt with me, but I ignored it and thought nothing would come of it, before I knew it he asked my name etc etc, later he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk that night *on the last night before I went home* so that night we went a walk along the beach..we ender up kissing,:love: but I had to be home before 12 and he wanted to take me to a disco, i said buonanotte and he said he would see me again..

 

SO

i went back for a week in september

we met again, and everynight we met as we knew we wouldnt see each other for a long time, things kind of went further and we got intimate.

 

I cried when i had to leave again

Now when im home, (in Scotland) he hardly speaks to me..or its just one word answers, as if he has other things to do, but its like hes playing it cool on purpose, so I decided to delete him off my facebook, it was annoying me how different he reacted compared to when we were together, to see if I got a reaction, and within 10 minutes of doing this, he tried to re-add me, YEAH i feel stupid for doing it, i just don't know if i meant something to him, but i also feel stupid for giving myself to him, idk, it was a bit soon, but i guess I really liked him and I'm single and we were safe and he is a really good guy!

 

So my question is if you have read this far, what do I do? do i re-add him? or do I keep him waiting? or will it turn him off? I feel i was easy, and i want to make him feel like im not easy! i want to make him want me

its hard when we dont live in the same country

or even speak the SAME LANGUAGE!

:/x

ps. its the first guy ive ever cried over..i really like him and cant even see him (JUST MY LUCK) so maybe its for the better to delete him

Edited by Angee
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You know you like him and he obviously likes you. Maybe he's having these one line answers because if the language barrier!! It seems to me like you are playing games!! Don't delete him just because he's not writing long messages to you, give it time, try to learn eachothers language! See where it could go, if anything you can have a good friend.

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