nyy915 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 I had a first date Saturday, the guy irritated me a little bit during the day before our date because it was originally supposed to be a day date. And i didnt contact him at all during the week before our date, so he texted me Friday night and asked if we were still on for our day date, I responded telling him yes, but I had some errands and cleaning to do in the morning and early afternoon and we agreed that " a little bit later would be better for both of us anyways. (mind you, we live an hour away from each other) I called him around 130 pm as i told him i would the night before, and he didnt get back to me until almost 5 pm. I let it go to voicemail so i could screen the call and decide whether or not i even wanted to go on with the date after the inconsideration during the day. After listening to the voice mail he seemed very apologetic and said he would drive down my way and he got caught up with a client and he would understand if i had already made plans but that he'd love to see me. So i decided to call back, we met for dinner, had great conversations, I dressed very cute but classy, didn't drink a lot and was the best version of me and had him laughing all night. He even asked to extend the date. All in all we had a good night, but he didn't try and kiss me goodnight, which i thought that was a little weird and I never heard from him for 2 days. I know some guys wait 3 days, but I just feel like its kind of rude, we all have our own opinions right? I know that i personally want a guy who liked me enough that he cant wait to call me, not someone who just plain doesn't care or is more concerned with playing the game than he is with me. What do you guys think? Am i wrong?
Author nyy915 Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 I guess thats true.. i dont know though. He didnt seem shy, he was definitly a gentleman, Pulled out my chair for me before I sat down, etc. But with today's technology, even a simple text message would be fine with me..I just feel that there isn't much of an excuse for it now a days..unless they just aren't into it, and we as women tend to make a lot of excuses for men. Well, what I always say, "there's always another bus!"
Pasttense Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 It seems that so many of the people here have these very complicated rulebooks for dating and then are surprised the person they dated didn't seem to know them by ESP. And again there is this very sexist view that the male is supposed to call up the female after a date--but not the reverse. What happened to women's liberation? The key point is that both of you had a very good time on the date.
FitChick Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 While he liked you, maybe he didn't think you were girlfriend material. Either that or he was hoping by changing a day time date into an evening one, he might get lucky. He didn't, so you may never hear from him again.
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