arbrne_vet Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 It's been one year since the bottom feel out of my life, one year since i proposed, and one year of pure hell. i remember thinking last year, how great the year before was. how we had so much fun, so much in love, that hopefully, next year we will be in that same place, or better. Also, last year a co-workers child got engaged. their engagement was a true one. mine, was a nightmare from hell This is that year later.... So, one year later, they are married, happy, starting their life together. One year later, here i sit. wondering what the hell has happened. Ya, staying NC. Trying to move on.
TheDovic Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 In the past year two of my friends have got married, three have got engaged and one has moved in with his gf. Like you one year ago I was so happy but now look!!! Sucks so bad dude
lonelynyc Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 That's the part that still hurts me the most, feeling like I wasted time on something that was doomed from the start while almost everyone else in my life is taking the next step with their significant other: moving in, getting engaged, etc. You know, it was my fault--I put up with really terrible treatment towards the end of the relationship, never stuck to NC with my ex... I mean at a certain point only we can allow ourselves to move on. We have to take ownership of our own healing process. So I'm taking steps, I changed my number, blocked her everywhere... Just take it a day at a time, airbornevet.
mike588 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 That's the part that still hurts me the most, feeling like I wasted time on something that was doomed from the start while almost everyone else in my life is taking the next step with their significant other: moving in, getting engaged, etc. You know, it was my fault--I put up with really terrible treatment towards the end of the relationship, never stuck to NC with my ex... I mean at a certain point only we can allow ourselves to move on. We have to take ownership of our own healing process. So I'm taking steps, I changed my number, blocked her everywhere... Just take it a day at a time, airbornevet. Yea I hear you about wasting time on a doomed relationship.I /we are in our 40s so as you get older it hurts worse,,,, running out of time.
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