futuregopher Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 I went out last night to the campus bars and number closed this girl. I was intoxicated so I don't know her name, don't know what she looks like, and don't know anything about her except she's chinese international law student. I am 21 years old turning 22 in a couple of weeks and Chinese. The bar was pretty loud but I couldn't hear anything she said but I was genuinely interested in talking to her more but she had to go home with her gf. As she was leaving, she seemed interested in keeping in contact so I asked for her phone number and she put it in my phone. I texted her today saying "hi it's me xxx from xxx it was cool meeting you last night". She responded by saying "LoL [] it was nice to meet you too" I think the [] was an emoticon or symbol but my phone is old so it doesn't get those in texts. I probably won't ask her out to dinner but I am interested in a coffee or lunch. I haven't been on a date since my ex of 2 years dumped me 2 months ago and I honestly just want to get to know this girl more. What should I do? Can I possibly have a lady's opinion? Thank you!
M2155 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 Confused on what part you need an opinion. Just text her back and ask if she knows coffee shop X and if so, ask her if she would be interested in meeting you there one day.
BLuvv Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 @futuregopher: go for it and ask her to lunch. What have you got to lose? And about not getting her name I would just be straight forward and admit you didn't catch her name, it happens, fessing up will get you more respect in the long run. Good luck! B
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