neghitzbrah Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 We all go through different stages in our life. Whether that stage be a state of resentment toward someone, rebound mode, cheating, etc. Think about it. Hard. Now, think about who you were seeing during that time in your life. Didn't you notice that they were going through that sort of experience or recently went through it? I'll lay out a few examples for you: 1. My rebound stage. I believe that during this stage, I was a bit messed up in my head as it has been a couple of month since I broke up with my ex. I have to say that this one girl caught my eye. Then, after about a month she started playing games with me. That went downhill until I ended it. Very similar, right? Turned out she was yearning for a man at her side. Months later, I found out she is in a serious relationship. Coincidence? 2. There was a point when I was talking to my ex after NC. It made it hard to get over her. Feelings kept coming back, and I was moving back and forth. I met this girl at work. She, too, just had a boyfriend who recently broke up with her. We went out, but then I suppose her ex got back in the picture, because she would be hot and cold with her affection. At this point... this was getting weird. I couldn't find anyone "normal." It didn't end there. The whole point I'm making is that, I'm not meeting a girl who isn't going through crap. I kept thinking to myself, why?? Is there no one normal in this world? It's because, I am not exactly "normal" at this point in my life! It has only been a little more than half a year since the breakup. I have to admit that I still miss her and am still trying to get over it. But, I really need to get my stuff together. I'm getting there. Getting my confidence back, back into shape, and starting my new "dream" job tomorrow Seriously, work on yourself and you will naturally meet someone who is where you are. That someone will be mentally secure and confident with themselves. Honestly tell me... who meets their soul-mate while they are depressed about their ex soon after the breakup? That hardly ever happens. Share an experience with me. I wanna know if this happened to any of you guys.
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