fuzzbella Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 Today i finally left and ive started No Contact to heal and get over him, but what i dont understand is the last thing he said to me. ' I love you, i love you as much as the first day i ever said it to you but i cant be with you ' The reason we originally broke up was because we had an argument and he went back to his ex. And now ive been getting fed false hope for the past 5 month and tonight i asked him to tell me the truth and he still wouldnt'. I told him if he really loved me he would be with me, because if you really love someone you'd be with them, wouldnt you? He was my bestfriend and its hard leaving but its the best thing for me. I dont think it'll be as hard for him because he has all these new friends he's met through college recently and he's been hitting the bars with the girls/guys. I told him i was leaving, if he could be with me id stay but having the feelings i have i cant stay and be just his friend. All he said to me was ' if i could find a way to be with you i would because i dont want this, i dont want this at all, i hate this, ive lost my friend and the most amazing girl ive ever met, the girl im still in love with, i miss you already ' This is the first time ive ever really left since we broke up 5 month ago. I just feel like what he's saying is lies, i wont return his stuff to his door im going to mail it to him so i dont have to see him. How can they say they love you but not be with you when nothing is stopping them? Do these feelings of missing them go away eventually?
LoveNoob Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 Today i finally left and ive started No Contact to heal and get over him, but what i dont understand is the last thing he said to me. ' I love you, i love you as much as the first day i ever said it to you but i cant be with you ' The reason we originally broke up was because we had an argument and he went back to his ex. And now ive been getting fed false hope for the past 5 month and tonight i asked him to tell me the truth and he still wouldnt'. I told him if he really loved me he would be with me, because if you really love someone you'd be with them, wouldnt you? He was my bestfriend and its hard leaving but its the best thing for me. I dont think it'll be as hard for him because he has all these new friends he's met through college recently and he's been hitting the bars with the girls/guys. I told him i was leaving, if he could be with me id stay but having the feelings i have i cant stay and be just his friend. All he said to me was ' if i could find a way to be with you i would because i dont want this, i dont want this at all, i hate this, ive lost my friend and the most amazing girl ive ever met, the girl im still in love with, i miss you already ' This is the first time ive ever really left since we broke up 5 month ago. I just feel like what he's saying is lies, i wont return his stuff to his door im going to mail it to him so i dont have to see him. How can they say they love you but not be with you when nothing is stopping them? Do these feelings of missing them go away eventually? Yes they eventually go away when they find a replacement who in their eyes is just good enough to make them feel happy. And if they claim to love and miss you and hate their situation but not say what is holding them back, or in my case (see my thread further down), are too lame to actually DO something about those reasons then they are just *******s who deserve their misery. EDIT: Sorry, i sounded really bitter. I'm not handling today's bad news well. So your ex never mentioned what is holding him back? May i ask what the argument was about?
wilsonx Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 You are doing the right thing for you! Its his loss on the friendship and let him suffer because of it. Real friends do not treat friends like this or gaslight them too. Do not worry about him anymore and start focusing on you.
mike588 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 Today i finally left and ive started No Contact to heal and get over him, but what i dont understand is the last thing he said to me. ' I love you, i love you as much as the first day i ever said it to you but i cant be with you ' The reason we originally broke up was because we had an argument and he went back to his ex. And now ive been getting fed false hope for the past 5 month and tonight i asked him to tell me the truth and he still wouldnt'. I told him if he really loved me he would be with me, because if you really love someone you'd be with them, wouldnt you? He was my bestfriend and its hard leaving but its the best thing for me. I dont think it'll be as hard for him because he has all these new friends he's met through college recently and he's been hitting the bars with the girls/guys. I told him i was leaving, if he could be with me id stay but having the feelings i have i cant stay and be just his friend. All he said to me was ' if i could find a way to be with you i would because i dont want this, i dont want this at all, i hate this, ive lost my friend and the most amazing girl ive ever met, the girl im still in love with, i miss you already ' This is the first time ive ever really left since we broke up 5 month ago. I just feel like what he's saying is lies, i wont return his stuff to his door im going to mail it to him so i dont have to see him. How can they say they love you but not be with you when nothing is stopping them? Do these feelings of missing them go away eventually? Yes the feelings do go away. My ex left me for her ex. but I did'nt and haven't got all the ,,,I hate this,, I'm still in love with you etc. Sounds like he's very confused to who he want's to be with.He probably still loves you but loves his ex too.
Zabs Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 What time is it? 3.58pm here....F**k that S***! If he went back to his ex and comes with lameness of being in love with you but blah de blah...bol****! Swerve him and move on...because next time it might not be just misery he brings you! A well pis**** off Zabs:mad: But much love to you xx
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