sadprincess Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 What do you do after day 1 NC (when ur ex finally had the courage have NC)? What are you feeling? Is life rosy and all peaches and weight has been lifted off? Or are you sad and full of regrets?
sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Well i am at day one of NC and it sux. I feel hurt, pissed, angry, and just kinda impressed he could actually go through with this after everything he promised me. Oh but im the dumpee
Author sadprincess Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Me to sweetpie. exact same situation as you. NC day 1 and am the dumpee. lonely and depressed. have to study but can't focus.
Desensitized Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 What do you do after day 1 NC (when ur ex finally had the courage have NC)? What are you feeling? Is life rosy and all peaches and weight has been lifted off? Or are you sad and full of regrets? Sad, but not full of regrets. If anything, I am proud of myself for having the strength to let go, instead of prolonging a relationship that is no longer going to work.
Author sadprincess Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 but i read several sites that there's stages that a dumper goes thru. something about initial stage feeling if weights been lifted, then regret, then sadness. i just wanna know if he cares or whether he's just going bout his day. like i mentioned earlier, its just nc day 1. just curious what hes up to now. we'd talk every day for >3 yrs. weird to not know or have someone to talk to about my day.
Desensitized Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 but i read several sites that there's stages that a dumper goes thru. something about initial stage feeling if weights been lifted, then regret, then sadness. i just wanna know if he cares or whether he's just going bout his day. like i mentioned earlier, its just nc day 1. just curious what hes up to now. we'd talk every day for >3 yrs. weird to not know or have someone to talk to about my day. who cares? it's over. move on. what difference does it make if he's sad or not? that sadness isn't going to last forever. of course it's natural to feel sad when a connection to someone you care about is broken, but that feeling goes away after a while. sorry for the sort of cold response, i'm not having the best day but yeah, don't be curious as to what he's up to, or at least try not to be. you'll just keep pulling yourself down if you do. try and get out and have fun with your friends and family. don't focus on finding a new boyfriend for the time being. cheers
Author sadprincess Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 its day one...i think this is a norm to feel this way. but thanks for the advice, i'll move on...just need a lil time.
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