rubberball Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I have tried being nice, its not getting the job done. She has canceled at least 5 times after she schedules when she can do it. She has offered twice for me to bring it to her, i declined both times. Its furniture, big stuff, i can just mail it. She took me out to dinner this past week for my birthday, she daughter called to come over and play yesterday but she always has an excuse why she cant get come and get the stuff. At this point I am ready to contact her father and ask for his help to get the belongs returned to her. She is going to get real upset if I do that, but I dont feel like I have an options. I know you guys will suggest bringing her stuff to her myself but to me that would be bailing her out again. I promised myself I would fix her problems anymore. any other ideas?
HokeyReligions Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Have a garage sale. What doesn't sell - call a charity truck. Give her notice what day the sale/truck are coming.
BLuvv Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Give her a deadline and tell her if she doesn't get it by then you're getting rid of it and stick to it. I had to do that before with my ex-fiance and I was selling the house and he wouldn't get the stuff til finally last minute. It was such a pain and it was not stuff I could just mail, big stuff. Then my dad was there when my ex came to get it and I stayed away from the house so I didn't have to talk to him.
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