sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Okay i never thought id be posting in this section but here goes....I had been seeing my BF for about 5 months now. I know not very long...but we had a great relationship. Funny how i say that, being that im here. Well, We live over and hour away from each other and right now our work schedules have been crazy. We would see each other once a week and if we were busy every other week. I had not seen him in a few weeks because of work and i was sick and we had plans twice this past week and he couldnt come see me because he was working late. With the hour drive one way he had to cancel. I got upset because hes been a little distant acting and of course i started to think the worst. On Thursday I told him that it was important for us to meet and that i felt a disconnect recently that concerned me. He said nothing was wrong but dummy me kept prodding and before you know it he finally went off on me and it got ugly. He had never done that before. But I guess i provoked it in a sense. I was always friendly with his mom and i called her after he hung up on me and told her we had been arguing and i that i didnt mean to accuse him of any wrong doing and she was really sweet to me giving me advice. He had a very bad relationship with the mother of his kids and they have been divorced 2 years. He was honest about this up front. I called him Friday morning and he said he heard i talked to his mom and after telling me he loved me he said he couldnt take the BS and drama anymore and hung up and said it was over. I felt like ive been hit by a car. Ive been so distraught. We always get a long and i know hes been under stress lately. Anyway i did text him several times yesterday and voice mail him too and he finally texted back to give him a few days to cool off. I told him i loved him and that I made a huge mistake and was sorry and to go ahead and cool off and he texted hes trying to and to please just let him cool off. I dont know what to do because i feel so lost and confused. Advise please?
Author sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Thanks. This hurts so badly...Weve never not talked for 1 day for the last 5 months
Author sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Thanks for writing back. Im trying to stay busy and not think about him but its so hard. hell i hadnt seen him in 3 weeks and i was missing him badly. I would keept hearing his cell phone go off with texts and it got me freaked out he was talking to someone else even though i know he really wasnt. It got the best of me.
Author sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Awe thanks for helping me.....Im so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope she gets her life worked out and hopefully maybe down the road you two can have contact. See the person i was with has 2 children, so not only have i lost him, Ive lost them. I loved those kids too. Make me so mad. We were gonna get married and even discussed a date in November. We even looked at engagement rings. I was going to move to his house in about a month and bought all kinds of things for us to be together. I bought a 50" TV a new sofa, plates, cups, forks, mixers, etc. He didnt ask me to but i just did. The stuff is at my house where i am now as im with family. Right now im just reeling at how he spoke to me and how he is willing to quit me so quickly and not even think about how it makes me feel. We had a date this wekeend to take his kids to get pumpkins and i even made them baskets for Halloween. UGH! We were so serious we had personalized wedding bands made. he knew those meant the world to me so i mailed them back to him friday. He will probably get them tomorrow.
PelicanPete Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Good thing about going through hell is that you come out of it burning hot. It's a cold world out there, we could use a little more warmth.
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