ElToroGrande Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Hi there, just want to talk to someone about my story and see if anyone has any advice for me. Me and my gf were going out since boxing day, we had a very passionate relationship and always had lots of fun. We both loved each other very much but when we got too drunk and argued they were like the worst arguements possible. Very fiery and heated, extremely volatile but when we woke up the next day we always worked it out. Anyways a couple of weeks we had one very bad arguement, so the next day she split up with me. I admit it was my fault and i can honestly say i seen the error in my ways and changed for the best. I tried to win her back but she was having none of it then one night she got wasted and slept with another man. needles to say she woke up and realised whatb shed done, aplogised over and over she was an emotional wreck and i decided to give her another chance. All was going good again adn after two weeks of being back she went out got wasted again and ended up staying at another mans house. She said she never did anything and that she was really sorry. She said she has a lot of issues right now and has to deal with them on her own. She said she loves me more than anything but she cant go on hurting me like this anymore and that i deserve a lot better. Its been 4 days now NC and i feel like i wasnt to kill myself, just so lost and lonely and miss everything about her. Am i wasting my time in assuming she will come back to me one day?? When we broke up last time she said every day all she wanted me to do was just show up and be there cos she couldnt get me off her mind either but she was that stubborn and just tried to push me away, should i be making an effort here or is NC the best way?? I know yous will say forget her she is no good but i cant help how i feel and know i want her back, iv been in love before but never like this. It would be a shame to throw it all away. Thanks for your time guys its really appreciated.
sweetypielovely Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 ElToro Im going thru the same thing right now and i just posted a thread. I hope i can give you comfort knowing others are feeling what you are too right now. Im so lost and distraught. Im there with you. HUGS!
Author ElToroGrande Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Thank you for the reply im having a really hard time at the moment. Feels worse because i feel like she is probably loving life and not even thinking about me at all. The last time we broke up she ended up hammered every night drowning herself with alcohol to forget me thus resulting in doing stupid things. She is extremely stubborn and when we got back her friends gae her a hard time for being back with me bcos of the volatile arguments we had, it put a lot of stress on our relationship bcos she was stuck in the middle and i think that has a lot to do with why we are broken up again. I dont know if theres anything i can do anymore i tried my absolute best when we broke up a month ago to get us back but this time i think i would be fighting a losing battle. I still have things i need to collect from hers but i dont want to contact her or she'l just think im looking for an excuse to see her.
Author ElToroGrande Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 I still have some things over at hers, should i wait for her to contact me and ask me to get them or should i contact her and tell im coming for them? just worried incase she thinks im just looking for an excuse to see her. This will be day 5 of NC. Thanks
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