antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Ok This is my situation.. I am a white male, in late twenties and all my life i have been in search and had some kind of attraction to interracial relationships, for some reason its not very easy for me to be attracted to my own race, which in a sense i guess is racist, but it seems like a healthy kind of racism, which would have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer. Its very easy for me to close white woman off of become quickly uninterested, which sometimes makes me feel guilty. I can always love a good heart, but secretly in the skin i have this deep craving for something that is not like me, and i wonder how many other people there are out there that feel the same.
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Its not racism in the true sense of the word but, i mean we are pretty "selective" about race which strangely seems to have the reverse effect of racism or separation.
Josephina Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 There is nothing wrong with preferring certain races, cultures, features, etc! This might sound kind of dumb, but my oldest daughter was a year old before it dawned on me that she was biracial...as it just hadn't mattered! My girls have this beautiful creamy, tan skin tone that many women pay lots of money to get, and they are Au natural! Within the dating realm, it can be problematic if you are unable to attract the attention of the race that you are so desiring..there have been some posts on LS about wanting to date certain people, but the other side not being interested. But overall, the world is becoming more accepting of interracial couples...although, there still are people out there who think they have the right to speak out against it.
CocoaBrown Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Ok This is my situation.. I am a white male, in late twenties and all my life i have been in search and had some kind of attraction to interracial relationships, for some reason its not very easy for me to be attracted to my own race, which in a sense i guess is racist, but it seems like a healthy kind of racism, which would have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer. Its very easy for me to close white woman off of become quickly uninterested, which sometimes makes me feel guilty. I can always love a good heart, but secretly in the skin i have this deep craving for something that is not like me, and i wonder how many other people there are out there that feel the same. Wow this is interesting because I know exactly how you feel. I'm black and used to only prefer white men. Black men would approach me and they wouldn't have a chance because I just wasn't interested and was actually turned off by the thought they would think I would be. I have a friend who is white and only dates black men. White men will approach her and she will talk to them but there is no attraction there and she is not sexually turned on by them. We would always joke around that we "hate" our own race and the fact that we would both have little mixed babies who would play together lol I think you should just follow your heart and love who you want to love. It's the same for people who prefer to date their own race. It may sound bad, but you have a right so don't feel guilty. Now I prefer to date black men. Maybe you will change, maybe you won't. Who the hell cares? As long as you are happy and treat your woman with respect regardless of her skin tone that's all that matters.
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Ok This is my situation.. I am a white male, in late twenties and all my life i have been in search and had some kind of attraction to interracial relationships, for some reason its not very easy for me to be attracted to my own race, which in a sense i guess is racist, but it seems like a healthy kind of racism, which would have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer. There's no healthy kind of racism unless it's racism against a racism od pedophile/child molesters killers and since that doesn't exist....... It doesn't have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer just some people. If everyone was like this it wouldn't bring same race people closer. It's not racist it's just a preference. If if you attributing negative things to women of your race or viewed them as less than instead of being less attracted then it's racist. Its very easy for me to close white woman off of become quickly uninterested, which sometimes makes me feel guilty. I can always love a good heart, but secretly in the skin i have this deep craving for something that is not like me, and i wonder how many other people there are out there that feel the same. There are tons of people out there that feel the same some even focus on one race. Like white guys with Asian girl fetishes aka asianophiles I think is the term. What is this deep craving stemming from? Wanting someone who is exotic? Wanting a taste of culture you don't think you have? The good heart bit has me thinking it's no different than a guy who loves big breasts but will be attracted & love a girl with small breasts however he's still a big boob guy.
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 But overall, the world is becoming more accepting of interracial couples...although, there still are people out there who think they have the right to speak out against it. I dont see how you can speak out against it with out being a racist, personally. Wow this is interesting because I know exactly how you feel. I'm black and used to only prefer white men. Black men would approach me and they wouldn't have a chance because I just wasn't interested and was actually turned off by the thought they would think I would be. I have a friend who is white and only dates black men. White men will approach her and she will talk to them but there is no attraction there and she is not sexually turned on by them. We would always joke around that we "hate" our own race and the fact that we would both have little mixed babies who would play together lol I think you should just follow your heart and love who you want to love. It's the same for people who prefer to date their own race. It may sound bad, but you have a right so don't feel guilty. Now I prefer to date black men. Maybe you will change, maybe you won't. Who the hell cares? As long as you are happy and treat your woman with respect regardless of her skin tone that's all that matters This story gives me both great hope and little sadness as i know i will find love but am really hoping as my younger more immature self that i get the girl i am currently seeking as it could be also argued that who i seek now is with more purity than with whom i may later seek. but that would take this conversation a little deeper down the rabbit hole. i think in the end if your in love you will have a sense of happiness, but its kinda like at the moment i want more than that, and i know that sounds really greedy. lol
Feelin Frisky Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I have experienced something like this but I no longer entertain those thoughts. I did find that in a lineup of women where one or two might have dark skin that my eyes would be drawn there but I don't think it's because I prefer dark skin. It's just nature to explore what you can't see as easily--especially when it's pretty and female.
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 There's no healthy kind of racism unless it's racism against a racism od pedophile/child molesters killers and since that doesn't exist....... It doesn't have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer just some people. If everyone was like this it wouldn't bring same race people closer. It's not racist it's just a preference. If if you attributing negative things to women of your race or viewed them as less than instead of being less attracted then it's racist Let me tell you how i see it.. Racism in the true sense of the word, and all the negativity attached to it, is about the superiority of one race which ultimately trying to "separate" themselves from each other. Then you, let me create a word "Interacism" which would be about, one race loving another race more than there own. Ultimately this would have a unification effect rather than a separation effect.. And love certainly has more in relations with unity than it does with separation. I believe we all came from one race and we will return to one race. There are tons of people out there that feel the same some even focus on one race. Like white guys with Asian girl fetishes aka asianophiles I think is the term. What is this deep craving stemming from? Wanting someone who is exotic? Wanting a taste of culture you don't think you have? The good heart bit has me thinking it's no different than a guy who loves big breasts but will be attracted & love a girl with small breasts however he's still a big boob guy. i dont know where this deep feeling stems, it could be my wild imagination, a past life experience morphic resonance or something of that nature are some of my thoughts.
Ojitos Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Ok This is my situation.. I am a white male, in late twenties and all my life i have been in search and had some kind of attraction to interracial relationships, for some reason its not very easy for me to be attracted to my own race, which in a sense i guess is racist, but it seems like a healthy kind of racism, which would have a reverse reflect in bringing people closer. Its very easy for me to close white woman off of become quickly uninterested, which sometimes makes me feel guilty. I can always love a good heart, but secretly in the skin i have this deep craving for something that is not like me, and i wonder how many other people there are out there that feel the same. I'm not sure how old you are but 'racism' isn't an accurate term. It's a PREFERENCE. I'm 40 and have dated mostly white women but prefer Latin women in a variety of ways. Just remember being able to get along and and common interests not just an affinity for a different skin color or ethnicity.
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) Nonsense, absolute pebble dash, even science says we're all different. No one single person is the same on this planet, so how you can pebble dash this waffle around is beyond me. Science with regards to history not that i have a beleiver in it, places its hands in the Evolution theory, which is pretty clear about all life evolving from signal cell organisms.. this is what Science would say.. Archeology, history, Region and mythology tell quite a different story. There is also evidence of Neanderthals breading with Homosapeans which as humans we may be the defendants of. Unity is everything anyway its hard for anything to exist or be created with out it. That is science.. Edited October 9, 2011 by antidote
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) Then you, let me create a word "Interacism" which would be about, one race loving another race more than there own. Ultimately this would have a unification effect rather than a separation effect.. And love certainly has more in relations with unity than it does with separation. One race loving another race more than own wouldn't have a unification effect. The people within the race wouldn't be unified. The effect it would have is one race loving another race more than their own. In fact it would also most likely create a separation effect from within that one race that loves another more than their own. Love that is specific to one type and loves that type more doesn't really unify and in fact does involve separation. Look at mothers who love their sons more than their daughters...they're loving the opposite gender more than their own....pretty sure that's not unifying the family or the siblings. What has a best shot at is the races loving each other or at least not hating each other not the white race loving the black race more while the hispanic race loves the asian race more. Edited October 9, 2011 by udolipixie
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 I'm not sure how old you are but 'racism' isn't an accurate term. It's a PREFERENCE. I'm 40 and have dated mostly white women but prefer Latin women in a variety of ways. Just remember being able to get along and and common interests not just an affinity for a different skin color or ethnicity. I am not old but i am not young, late twenties. I can agree this is a preference but is also a preference based on race, and is just as selective as racism but not in a way in which to separate or pull apart. this is again my interpritation of it after allot of thought as i used to think it was just a preference.. Racism to a large degree is also based on preference, as im sure if you ask any racist which they prefer they are going to tell you there skin color with a little extra passion
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) One race loving another race more than own wouldn't have a unification effect. The people within the race wouldn't be unified. The effect it would have is one race loving another race more than their own. In fact it would also most likely create a separation effect from within that one race that loves another more than their own. Love that is specific to one type and loves that type more doesn't really unify and in fact does involve separation. Look at mothers who love their sons more than their daughters...they're loving the opposite gender more than their own....pretty sure that's not unifying the family or the siblings. What has a best shot at is the races loving each other or at least not hating each other not the white race loving the black race more while the hispanic race loves the asian race more. One race loving another more than there own, is what racism is all about.. its all about the superiority of one master race, i mean Hitler would tell you that. interracial relationships defintaly have a unification effect i mean mixed babies are one result of such unification, the least likely people to be racist are mix race people as they do not really attach themselves to one specific race. Look at mothers who love their sons more than their daughters...they're loving the opposite gender more than their own....pretty sure that's not unifying the family or the siblings. This is a different kind of love, a mothers love which sometimes needs to be divided is very two people who love each other in a way in i believe should resemble unification, in the way they complete each other and love unites to come one. to add to that, i would say, if there was a mother loving her son more than here daughter there man be a father loving his daughter more than his son which seems to equal things out and play right into the hands of mother nature, Edited October 9, 2011 by antidote
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) interracial relationships defintaly have a unification effect Interracial relationships don't really have a unification effect if the people involved are actively seeking out another race and want to bring another race into their life. That's just a race fetish with some unification because another race is in their life. Don't really consider it unifying when a white guy with an Asian fetish gets with his idealized Asian wank girl then lives solely as Asian. Interracial relationships usually has a more profound unification effect when the people involved view each other as people not races and bring those people and all thier heritage and culture into their life and blend it. Even then it's a unification effect on a small scale. What you had stated was "Then you, let me create a word "Interacism" which would be about, one race loving another race more than there own. Ultimately this would have a unification effect rather than a separation effect" That's not unification rather than separation because loving another race more than their own while it may unify the two races it most likely will cause separation within the races. interracial relationships defintaly have a unification effect i mean mixed babies are one result of such unification, the least likely people to be racist are mix race people as they do not really attach themselves to one specific race. Really the least likely people to be racist are biracials? Do you have a study to back that up? I find it's not race but character and environment that may show what person is least likely to be a racist. Plenty of biracial and multi racial kids are racist. Some hate other races aka a black/white biracial hating Asians. Some hate the 1 or 2 races that are part of their heritage aka black/white biracial girl hates her blackness and thinks because she's light skinned and has white in her she's superior. So this least likely biz.. is really just your experiences unless you have a study. As for this not attaching themselves to one race plenty of biracials claim one race over the other. A black/white biracial may claim to be just black. A hispanic/asian biracial may claim to be just hispanic. to add to that, i would say, if there was a mother loving her son more than here daughter there man be a father loving his daughter more than his son which seems to equal things out and play right into the hands of mother nature, Equal perhaps but not unifying rather than causing separation. The family isn't being unified and the mother/daughter and the father/son relationship is clear cut separation. There's not true unification of the family there and there's definitely separation there. Edited October 9, 2011 by udolipixie
Josephina Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I dont see how you can speak out against it with out being a racist, personally. This story gives me both great hope and little sadness as i know i will find love but am really hoping as my younger more immature self that i get the girl i am currently seeking as it could be also argued that who i seek now is with more purity than with whom i may later seek. but that would take this conversation a little deeper down the rabbit hole. i think in the end if your in love you will have a sense of happiness, but its kinda like at the moment i want more than that, and i know that sounds really greedy. lolAn external person speaking out against an interracial couple would be racism. That external racism is prevalent, although I think as time goes on it will lessen. So I take you weren't quite certain who the father was? Why am I not surprised Actually both my girls have the same dad - the man I married and have been with since I was 16 years old. I knew he was a different race, but I didn't have the dawning realization that I had a biracial child for quite some time - because race didn't matter to me. I loved my husband for who he was, not the colour of his skin. You actually have a lot of nerve (and not very much class) to try to insinuate otherwise based on what I had written. And to add "Why am I not surprised"... what a DB move.
Author antidote Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 A bit of a contradiction there since you stated. I dont see how i have contradicted myself, i have made clear distinctions between racism being about the superiority of one race and one race believing its superior to another. I also went on to say that interracial racism in terms of separation, yes their is a slight separation from what you are already quite a part of, but at the same time a unification effect on something your not apart of, there can be no denying that two races coming together in anyway most certainly genetically is a form of unification, this unification would cause separation in the form of evolution. Interracial relationships don't really have a unification effect if the people involved are actively seeking out another race and want to bring another race into their life. That's just a race fetish with some unification because another race is in their life. Don't really consider it unifying when a white guy with an Asian fetish gets with his idealized Asian wank girl then lives solely as Asian. Or when a white guy with a black girl fetish gets with his idealized chocolate treat then lives solely as African. I understand what your saying but there is a big difference between a sexual fetish and what i would call somewhat of what i would call a racial passion. Interracial relationships usually has a more profound unification effect when the people involved view each other as people not races and bring those people and all thier heritage and culture into their life and blend it. Even then it's a unification effect on a small scale. On a genetic scale it has a huge impact and i guess you could also consider it a form of selective breeding, which can be quite controversial. What you had stated was "Then you, let me create a word "Interacism" which would be about, one race loving another race more than there own. Ultimately this would have a unification effect rather than a separation effect" I apologize, what i meant to say was " it would not be about loving your race more than another. it would be about loving another race more than your own, which is a very different thing ultimately and this kind of racial selection has a unification effect on mankind and also this kind of racial selection tends to replace war with love. Really the least likely people to be racist are biracials? Do you have a study to back that up? i would think for instance, a child with a white mother and a black father is less likely to be racist than a child coming from a straight white or black family based on their inner understanding of both races which usually would be greater than the child whom understands only one. Equal perhaps but not unifying rather than causing separation. the way i see it is if its equal there is no real separation.
udolipixie Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 I dont see how i have contradicted myself, I caught that hence why I edited my post. In fact it was edited before your response so I'm guessing you typed this when you saw the non edited post. Disregard the contradiction bit. I understand what your saying but there is a big difference between a sexual fetish and what i would call somewhat of what i would call a racial passion. Not going to go into this seeing as how I wasn't discussing the differences, said it was the same, or even stated that going after one race = sexual fetish. I'm guessing you just pointed this out because you may be doubting whether for you it's a fetish or passion. On a genetic scale it has a huge impact and i guess you could also consider it a form of selective breeding, which can be quite controversial. It can have a huge impact. Controversy aside not all race mixing is healthy. I apologize, what i meant to say was " it would not be about loving your race more than another. it would be about loving another race more than your own, which is a very different thing ultimately and this kind of racial selection has a unification effect on mankind and also this kind of racial selection tends to replace war with love. No need for an apology. What you meant to say is essentially the same thing you said. The loving more part doesn't equal unification effect on mankind. It equals one race loving another race more. It most likely will create separation within the race. For example: whites loving blacks more. It will result in more biracial babies and interracial relationships. However on the white side there will most likely be separation and a lack of unity. There will be separation and a lack of unity within the race so racial selection where one loves another race more than their own probably won't result in unification in mankind. Also being in an interracial relationship or being biracial/multiracial doesn't mean you can't make war. Plenty of self haters out there. Kind of hard to unify blacks & whites if whites love blacks more than their own and some of the blacks in the relationships hate themselves. Kind of hard to unify blacks & asians if blacks love asians more than their own and some of their children hate one of their heritages. i would think for instance, a child with a white mother and a black father is less likely to be racist than a child coming from a straight white or black family based on their inner understanding of both races which usually would be greater than the child whom understands only one. Keywords...you would think. It's not proven and plenty of people will have experiences telling you otherwise. There are people racist against their own race. So if being white doesn't automatically mean you're not racist against whites evidently being both races doesn't mean you're less likely to be racist in general. Also you're assuming that the biracial/multiracial child understands both or all of their races. Some bi/multiracial children identify with only one race. So their understanding is like a straight white or straight black child. the way i see it is if its equal there is no real separation. They get each get a parent that loves them more than the other sibling in that sense they are equal aka father loves daughter more & mother loves son more. However there is a real separation in relationships. The father/son and mother/daughter relationship is the separation. So if I stated that blacks can eat here and whites can eat here and the food is equal does that mean there's no real separation?
Queen Zenobia Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 You are not a racist, you just have psychological issues. There are plenty of people like you out there. Why do you feel he has "psychological issues"?
Tayla Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 IN the world of real estate, we call this all about location, location , location. If a German marries an Italian...interracial....and so on ad nauseum. Where I draw the line is when the "PREFERENCE" takes on an EXCLUSION of all other "Human Race" People. The Purist, who proclaim "Only the Two armed blue eyes (fill in the blank) person for me!". Sorry but I have been on the other end in a marriage when my endearing spouse made it clear he really didn't care for Lemon meringue pie but his true longing was for Apple Pie. Yes I was the lemon meringue pie and he wanted this taste for the African American.(Apple Pie). WOuld have been nice to know before the "I DO's". No matter the race, a heart can break from not being that "preferred" race...remember that next time you shun someone because of the heritage...
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 all my life i have been in search and had some kind of attraction to interracial relationships, for some reason its not very easy for me to be attracted to my own race, which in a sense i guess is racist, Uhhhhhhhhhhh, there is nothing "racist" about that at all.
Author antidote Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 Not going to go into this seeing as how I wasn't discussing the differences, said it was the same, or even stated that going after one race = sexual fetish. It doesn't have to mean that, there does not have to be a sexual stigma attached its just very easy to attach one and i will admit it does exist but its bigger than that, and stems for me in the direction and unification of two races.. there is an a emotional side for me at least which is attached to this which is pretty hard to explain. Controversy aside not all race mixing is healthy. I am not saying your wrong but how do you know this to be true? It defiantly would seem more healthy than the path, the elites and royals of this world have chosen in the past whom practice and perhaps still do practice interbreeding, intermarrying in the hope to always have a clear distinction between the upper and lower class. Of course these people also had a huge influence on man kind today. The loving more part doesn't equal unification effect on mankind. It equals one race loving another race more. It most likely will create separation within the race. There would eventually be nothing to separate? the white separate from the whites, the blacks separate from the blacks, the Asians separate from the Asians, In time man instead of seeing his skin only in his race, see's his skin in all races and thus the human family could be said to unity. whites loving blacks more. It will result in more biracial babies and interracial relationships. However on the white side there will most likely be separation and a lack of unity. I dont agree, how can a biracial baby, which essentially could be a white baby mixed with a black baby cause separation ? This baby would understand from birth that if there war war between race rather than love, he or she simply would not exist. they instead would be replaced by another ruthless animal which has raged this earth many times before Also being in an interracial relationship or being biracial/multiracial doesn't mean you can't make war. Plenty of self haters out there. This is very true, For Example : A black, and a white could unite and one of them may be a self hater and declare war on their own race, however the fact the "lover" of this person has love for the "race" which the other declare war on, would ultimately save that race. this story has been told in mythology, in the black and white magic of Ancient Egypt. Kind of hard to unify blacks & asians if blacks love asians more than their own and some of their children hate one of their heritages. Sometimes its not about where you came from, its about where your going Keywords...you would think. It's not proven and plenty of people will have experiences telling you otherwise. There are people racist against their own race. So if being white doesn't automatically mean you're not racist against whites evidently being both races doesn't mean you're less likely to be racist in general. Also you're assuming that the biracial/multiracial child understands both or all of their races. Some bi/multiracial children identify with only one race. So their understanding is like a straight white or straight black child. Its not been proven but certainly has not been disproved, i am just putting this out their as my opinion though. I am not saying that all Biracial people are not going to be racist and i am sure their are some that are..However most of them would understand they simply wont exist in the absence of love and opposite attraction. its very rare you see biracial people being racist.. Iv certianly never met or even heard of many of these people. They get each get a parent that loves them more than the other sibling in that sense they are equal aka father loves daughter more & mother loves son more. However there is a real separation in relationships. The father/son and mother/daughter relationship is the separation. Yes there is a separation of sorts, but i believe this to be natural and this influence to later influence a unity where a girl would see her father in a man or parts of him and love and unify with them, this can not always be the case though. So if I stated that blacks can eat here and whites can eat here and the food is equal does that mean there's no real separation? It means you have moved a step closer to becoming unified.. If i have a circle with three lines in the middle and i remove one of those lines is their still separation? yes? but if you keep doing what your doing, pretty soon there wont be.
Author antidote Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 Not going to go into this seeing as how I wasn't discussing the differences, said it was the same, or even stated that going after one race = sexual fetish. It doesn't have to mean that, there does not have to be a sexual stigma attached its just very easy to attach one and i will admit it does exist but its bigger than that, and stems for me in the direction and unification of two races.. there is an a emotional side for me at least which is attached to this which is pretty hard to explain. Controversy aside not all race mixing is healthy. I am not saying your wrong but how do you know this to be true? It defiantly would seem more healthy than the path, the elites and royals of this world have chosen in the past whom practice and perhaps still do practice interbreeding, intermarrying in the hope to always have a clear distinction between the upper and lower class. Of course these people also had a huge influence on man kind today. The loving more part doesn't equal unification effect on mankind. It equals one race loving another race more. It most likely will create separation within the race. There would eventually be nothing to separate? the white's separate from the whites, the black's separate from the black's, the Asian's separate from the Asian's, In time man instead of seeing his skin only in his race, see's his skin in all races and thus the human family could be said to unity. whites loving blacks more. It will result in more biracial babies and interracial relationships. However on the white side there will most likely be separation and a lack of unity. I dont agree, how can a biracial baby, which essentially could be a white baby mixed with a black baby cause separation ? This baby in most cases should understand from birth that if there war war between race rather than love, he or she simply would not exist. they instead would be replaced by another ruthless animal which has raged this earth many times before Also being in an interracial relationship or being biracial/multiracial doesn't mean you can't make war. Plenty of self haters out there. This is very true, For Example : A black, and a white could unite and one of them may be a self hater and declare war on their own race, however the fact the "lover" of this person has love for the "race" which the other declare war on, could and in my opinion would ultimately save that race. this story has been told in mythology, in the black and white magic of Ancient Egypt. Kind of hard to unify blacks & asians if blacks love asians more than their own and some of their children hate one of their heritages. Sometimes its not about where you came from, its about where your going Keywords...you would think. It's not proven and plenty of people will have experiences telling you otherwise. There are people racist against their own race. So if being white doesn't automatically mean you're not racist against whites evidently being both races doesn't mean you're less likely to be racist in general. Also you're assuming that the biracial/multiracial child understands both or all of their races. Some bi/multiracial children identify with only one race. So their understanding is like a straight white or straight black child. Its not been proven but certainly has not been disproved, i am just putting this out their as my opinion though. I am not saying that all Biracial people are not going to be racist and i am sure their are some that are..However most of them should and would understand they simply wont exist in the absence of love and opposite attraction. its very rare you see biracial people being racist.. Iv certainly never met or even heard of many of these people and if there is a large number of these people i dont know about kindly direct me towards this mob They get each get a parent that loves them more than the other sibling in that sense they are equal aka father loves daughter more & mother loves son more. However there is a real separation in relationships. The father/son and mother/daughter relationship is the separation. Yes there is a separation of sorts, but i believe this to be natural and this influence to later influence a unity where a girl would see her father in a man or parts of him and love and unify with them, sadly this can not always be the case. So if I stated that blacks can eat here and whites can eat here and the food is equal does that mean there's no real separation? It means you have moved a step closer to becoming unified.. If i have a circle divided by three lines(barriers) and i remove one of those lines(barriers) is their still separation? yes? but if you keep doing what your doing, pretty soon there wont be.
Kitsune77 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 If I was a heterosexual man( which I'm not:) I would always be attracted to Asian women. Hel, as a straight Caucasian woman I'm attracted to them. There's very few Asian men I am attracted to though. I think most of us like something a little( not too much though) differant from ourselves.
Author antidote Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 I apologize for the double post, could a moderator kindly remove the first of my double post. Thanks. IN the world of real estate, we call this all about location, location , location. If a German marries an Italian...interracial....and so on ad nauseum. Where I draw the line is when the "PREFERENCE" takes on an EXCLUSION of all other "Human Race" People. The Purist, who proclaim "Only the Two armed blue eyes (fill in the blank) person for me!". Sorry but I have been on the other end in a marriage when my endearing spouse made it clear he really didn't care for Lemon meringue pie but his true longing was for Apple Pie. Yes I was the lemon meringue pie and he wanted this taste for the African American.(Apple Pie). WOuld have been nice to know before the "I DO's". No matter the race, a heart can break from not being that "preferred" race...remember that next time you shun someone because of the heritage... I am sorry to hear about your story and that sounds very sad, and allot of pain can be caused by those which do not know what they want, or those that say things only later to change their mind. I do realize the pain involved in being rejected for race, infact iv lost love for this reason and the kind of pain you speak of in my experience can be more associated with interracial love since the fair majority of people these people try it on with are rejected for exactly this reason, the only difference is its happens almost instantly. Honestly is so so important. I am sorry to hear about your story and that sounds very sad, and allot of pain can be caused by those which do not know what they want, or those that say things only later to change their mind. I do realize the pain involved in being rejected for race, infact iv lost love for this reason and the kind of pain you speak of in my experience can be more associated with interracial love since the fair majority of people these people try it on with are rejected for exactly this reason, the only difference is its happens almost instantly and doesn't hurt as much as much as someone whom has crawled into your heart.
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