ls32ssibm Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 So my GF broke my heart, yada yada yada. As it turns out, while I was grieving and crying every day still, (a week or two into the break up) she was already seeing another guy. Well, how poorly I handled the break-up, mixed with the fact I texted her and let her know what I thought about her jumping right into another relationship, left ME the bad guy...blocked on facebook by all her friends and family, etc. etc. I can't imagine what she told all them but I doubt it was the truth. Anyways, yeah. It hurts to see how easily replaceable you are. I am currently having some issues getting over her on week 7 and she's already been IN AND OUT of another relationship after me.
january2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I'm sorry to be harsh. To be honest, her blocking you was a good thing. Saves you from having to do it yourself. Now go complete NC and get on with your life. Leave her to the new guy.
Zabs Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 :sick:nasty! Obviously she has issues. She can't be on her own long can she? I suspect there is more to it than that though. Take pride in the fact that YOU DON'T have to resort to such actions and are strong enough to deal with how you feel without USING and ABUSING another person. Zabs xx
Zabs Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 As an after thought, as another thread points out...there is a thin line between love and hate. The opposite of love ain't hate....Loveshack family...answers please................ Indifference. If she had to go to all those lengths, CLEARLY she is bothered... suspect the proverbial fat lady hasn't sung yet. Zabs xx;)
LelouchIsZero Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) Ha, I understand that feeling greatly. It seems as if we've shared a rather similar experience, except for the minor detail that I removed her friends & family in order to distance myself. Edited October 9, 2011 by LelouchIsZero
HappyFlower Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I've never made an ex hate me, but sometimes I think it'd be easier for me to get over if my recent ex (5 weeks out) who I still love, hated me rather than try to be just friends Friends is annoying, and is unhelpful in the healing process. I think her being in and out of a relationship in that amount of time says a lot about her, she is obviously more bothered by the breakup than she let on. Don't worry about being replaced, the guy wasn't a replacemnt, just a quick substitute for a while. And honestly its better she blocked you on fb - she might have seen it as something she did to hurt you, but turn it around Now you don't have to keep seeing what her and her friends are doing, she did you a favour! So to her!
TheDovic Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Your reactions were completely normal (not necessarily healthy though, but understandable). Plus the other guy was a rebound, she was just kidding herself! My point is this... when the dust settles she'll realise what you did was understandable and the anger will fade. She may even come to miss you now she doesn't have you around. And I hope she does because whilst what you did wasn't particularly nice, what she did was way worse so she deserves to suffer a bit too!
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