loveburden Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 my ex and i broke almost two month ago. the breakup was hard, i did all the wrong things by contacting him constantly, begging him back. but he refused to talk to me, if he did it was only minimal. so i gave up and stopped contacting him. i went on on holidays back to my home town and had an awesome time, i met someone. it was just a fling but it really numbed my pain. i was starting to have fun again and enjoy life. my ex was beginning to feel like a distant memory. this guy was amazing, nice and made feel alive and sexy. but my ex recently contacted me telling me how much he misses me and that he wears our engagement ring around his neck all the time, and that he wants to see me again. at first i ignored his initiation just because i was so confused but i gave in adventually and contacted him. we have been talking, he has been really nice and sweet toward me, but he asked me if i could spend a night with him while i was in town. i told him that i do not want to have sex with him and that i have kissed another guy ( my ex does not know that i slept of this other guys house, we did not have sex but it did get heated, i just could not bring myself to having sex with someone else)but have not slept with anyone since him. he got very angry and called me a slut but ignored him and then he apologized telling me that he was just hurt to know that i can move on. i told him that i cannot be friends with, that there is just too much history to just go from being so intimate to just friends. he told me that it is fine , that he just wants to spend a night with me, nothing sexual. he also told me that there was no chance of us getting back together as i am moving a few hours away from him. sorry about my rant, just don't no what to do. advice would be very much appreciated.
Johnny85 Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 So do you want to get back together with him? Why did the two of you break up?
Author loveburden Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 i broke it off. we were doing long distance. it was just hard not seeing eachother. i did it in the heat of the moment, we were both angry. i guess at that time i did want it to be over. i felt like i was his puppet, that he knew that he could do whatever he wanted and i would be there. but i truly do love him. since we broke up i guess i through myself into partying and drinking. then i met this guy and there was just this instant connection. i felt free. but since my ex has started contacting me again i am begginning to want him again and want us. he has this hold over me. 1
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