Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 12, 2011 Author Posted October 12, 2011 What do you mean by several months of perspective exactly?
EgoJoe Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 Go several months without talking to him or knowing anything going on with him and you'll be surprised where your mind is at. Go on a learning binge too. It's liberating. You change on a fundamental level.
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 12, 2011 Author Posted October 12, 2011 Well that is the plan although it is hard not to think about him every now and then because I really do miss him. I am sure it will get better in time though
antz2411 Posted October 12, 2011 Posted October 12, 2011 look maaaaaan haha you have your head on strong... you're doing the right thing for yourself. I will dispense this little nugget of wisdom I have come to realize when it comes to finding who you want to be with. It can be summed up in 2 words. LET GO. LET GO of how you feel. LET GO of what you think he feels. LET GO of what you think you feel. LET GO of everything but the desire to be… WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. Simple huh. I AM saying that you cannot control the actions of another person unless they are of a weak mind; or do not love themselves enough to know who is good for them. How do you find someone who wants to be with you? Ask her/him out? Ask her/him out again. Listen and observe. he/she says yes. Great. he/She says no. That’s ok too. he/she continues to flirt, ask again. he/she said YES! Go out and have fun. Ask for seconds. he/she says no again, don’t sweat it. Just LET GO. If he/she wants to be with you, she will MAKE time in his/her life for it too happen on both yours AND his/hers schedules. This is a partnership right? It takes two to play. True love knows no bounds right? That is too "simplistic" you say? "It sounds like you are both trying and not trying to meet someone. That’s impossible." Which comes to my other maxim in life when it comes to finding the woman/man you want, the life you want. Letting go completely is probably the most difficult thing any one MIGHT be able to accomplish in life. I struggled with it everyday. I am no more immune from "falling off the path" than the rest of the people here. Emotions, our hearts and our minds are the reasons we trip up. But my goal is to get back up so fast, that if anyone saw, I could say to them I never fell and they would believe me. just some words of enlightenment. ive been conversing with you for the past two days i think and you're one of the few that really have you're head on strong. you're one of the few that recognize their self worth and it begins with that. dont let anybody ever take that away from you.
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