sashabug Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I had an internship last year that turned into a paid part time position. I will no longer be at this place this May though when I am done with grad school. There is a guy there that I like. We are both 23. He does not work in my department. We became friends pretty soon after I started a year ago. This is because he did briefly date my roommate. I set them up because I thought theyd be compatible. They lasted a month- they didnt really like each other...I think they tried for me. This guy and I during their short relationship talked quite a bit at work and texted each other...but I mostly talked about my roommate and I didnt like him more than a friend. When they stopped seeing each other we went back to how it was before- just sometimes talking at work as friends. Sometime after they ended, he did briefly date another girl at work in a different department but she just wanted sex so it didnt last. He told me about this. Sometimes I did wonder if he liked me. After he and my roommate stopped seeing each other and I was at the end of a shortlived relationship, he asked me alot of questions about the guy in a flirty way. My co worker mentioned she thought he liked me a bit. I dont know if he is just flirty though...I did see him a bit outside of work but that was with another girl. But, I have developed a crush on him for the past 2 months. He told me 2 days ago he recently moved to a new apartment near me. I mentioned we should hang out and he said "Yes lets go for drinks." I walked by him in a hall later and he said "I expect a text from you dont leave me hanging." I texted him when I got home, suggesting a day and he said its a done deal and that we need to catch up. We did text back and forth a bit talking about work and his new apartment. I asked him what he was like when he was drunk and he said "just sweet and sensitive me" and I said "haha yeah right people are on their best behavior at work" and he said "yeah you only know me a bit"
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Just meet him while anticipating he's interested in more, and at the very least, the new data and details you learn while having a drink with him will tell you all you need to know either way. (my gut feeling is that he's definitely interested in more from you)
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