dicky_fish Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I'm spending the weekend with my best friend from uni and his fiance. I love the pair of them very much but looking at them is causing my agony! They have everything I had apart from the engagement ring! Sucks knowing I was so close to living the dream and seeing how good it is for them, and I'm now years away from being like that again.
Forever Learning Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Chin up, your time will come. Think positive, it really has everything to do with success and getting the things you hope for in life.
PositiveNegative Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Dicky, When it is years from now. When you finally feel "like" that. Everything, all of this, will be absolutely worth it.
shortee143 Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 It is hard- we tend to compare our love lives with others. And wonder why they have it "all", and we dont. I am in my late 20s, and many of my friends are engaged, or in serious relationships....and here I am, still healing my poor little heart. I miss my ex, and seeing our mutual friends dating and together hurts, bc I want to be apart of that still. It is unfair- but we have to believe our time will too come...but that waiting part is a pain!
Author dicky_fish Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 The really sucky part is I was there! I was at that point in my life where I was ready for all that and just don't know what the hell to do with myself now. Dating seems such an alien concept. My heart really goes out to those on this board who've had their heart broken by a fiance.
Sugarkane Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I feel totally the same too. It sucks to see other people engaged., when that is what I wanted.
shortee143 Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Agreed Dicky Fish..my heart goes out for anyone whose fiance just walked out on them (or their husband/wife for that matter), heck for anyone who was in a really long term relationship!! My relationship was under a year, so I know it could be waaay worse, as he coulda pulled the same crap after we were together for years. Still hurts like hell bc my situation has sadly kept my ex in my life hence causing so much pain (mutual friends etc)....- but I cant even imagine how others cope after much more serious relationships!
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