feels he's not good enough for me, so introducing me to his single male friend?

[dumpedandsore]

i have encountered this situation twice with guys i met on the net. After our initial meeting, they continued to contact me ethusiastically and dated me again. They showed their interest in me and i was receptive to it. I continued to communicate and reply to their invitations.

 

However, after the 2nd date or so or some period of communication, they unilaterally invited me to hang out with their single male friend. They said, hey, i have a friend to introduce to you, would you like to know him? he is single and nice.. i feel rather bad because we were just getting to know each other, and there they go, pushing me like some cannon ball to their male single friends.. To me, their actions suggested that they are rejecting me and doesn't want me to harbour any romantic interest in them. Since they are so ever eager to introduce me to their single male friends (telling me that its good to widen my social circle), i guess they just dont see any value in knowing or keeping me around as a dating interest or friend.

 

I questioned two of them. One said he felt that our differences are too wide, another said, he mistaken that i wasn't interested in him, he felt he wasn't up to mark for me and hence, thought he could introduce his friend to him who might be a better option.

 

Is their reasoning true? What could be other possibilities why these guys in the dating scene (on the look out for dating partners) are actively introducing their friends to me even when i dont even know them well? (Note: I didnt sleep with any of them, or was physically intimate with them, so rotating me as a sex partner fling or no strings attached party is totally out of the question)

 

would a guy introduce a girl he is interested in to his friends simply when he feels that she is out of his league, or that, he is not comparable to her?

[dumpedandsore]

i have encountered this situation twice with guys i met on the net. After our initial meeting, they continued to contact me ethusiastically and dated me again. They showed their interest in me and i was receptive to it. I continued to communicate and reply to their invitations.

 

However, after the 2nd date or so or some period of communication, they unilaterally invited me to hang out with their single male friend. They said, hey, i have a friend to introduce to you, would you like to know him? he is single and nice.. i feel rather bad because we were just getting to know each other, and there they go, pushing me like some cannon ball to their male single friends.. To me, their actions suggested that they are rejecting me and doesn't want me to harbour any romantic interest in them. Since they are so ever eager to introduce me to their single male friends (telling me that its good to widen my social circle), i guess they just dont see any value in knowing or keeping me around as a dating interest or friend.

 

I questioned two of them. One said he felt that our differences are too wide, another said, he mistaken that i wasn't interested in him, he felt he wasn't up to mark for me and hence, thought he could introduce his friend to him who might be a better option.

 

Is their reasoning true? What could be other possibilities why these guys in the dating scene (on the look out for dating partners) are actively introducing their friends to me even when i dont even know them well? (Note: I didnt sleep with any of them, or was physically intimate with them, so rotating me as a sex partner fling or no strings attached party is totally out of the question)

 

would a guy introduce a girl he is interested in to his friends simply when he feels that she is out of his league, or that, he is not comparable to her?

 

any inputs?

[Pasttense]

Anything is possible, but I think it more likely that he is just not into you.