6070 Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Hello all, I have been in a realationship with this girl called Catherine for a year and a half now. The last four months of which have been long distance. (Started in July) At the beginning of the LDR we both agreed it would be a good way to see whether or not we were meant to be. I guess we were both putting a positive spin on it. The first time alarm bells started to ring for me was when It dawned on me how little she called me. I am always the first to call her. (I'm not the needy type that calls 5 times a day...more like once or twice a week) Normally when i go over to her place to visit her it is all wonderful its just like old times and we just have a great time with each other...or so i believe. Last week I paid a surprise visit to catherine and for some reason she was really off with me. She was constantly putting me down and arguing with me. Right at the end of the week I sat up for a few hours and talked to her and she tells me she resented the surprise visit cos she is in her last year of uni and has loads of paper work to do. I told her I wouldn't surprise her again and let her get on with work...i was just trying to be romantic. I guess she wasn't in the mood. The following morning I had to get up at 5 in the morning to go to work she kissed me good bye and all seemed well. Today I left a facebook message reiterating my thanks for letting me stay with her and giving her some friendly encouragement towards her work. She hasn't replied. :-( She posted something on facebook later today so i know she got my messsage. Also her ex is contacting her on facebook. Guys be honest am I letting my worries get the better of me??? Or should I brace myself for the worst??? Additional info:- 1We met when i was in my third year of uni and she was in her first 2We've talked about getting a place together after she finishes uni which is why I am living with my rents for now saving up money Thanks for reading
january2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 It sounds like you don't talk enough. If you did, you'd know her workload and whether or not you'd be welcome if you dropped in unnannounced. I suggest having a talk with her about how things are going and the levels of communication. It's possible that circumstances have changed and you need to re-evaluate your situation based on the new information.
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