Phone calls

[Zabs]

Yes or no.....is it a good idea to pretend you don't know the number calling is your ex? Is it more likely that they will think you are playing games and consequently start and argument with you on that basis? :confused:Thirdly, would you be bothered?

 

Comments please!

 

Zabs xx

[TheDovic]

Eh... tough one! On one hand they're bound to know you're lying, it's how they respond to this that's the issue.

 

However, deleting their number gives them a significant amount of power as it shows how much you're affected by them leaving you. So I personally wouldn't do this.

[mike588]

Alittle off the subject but I ran into one of my exs g/fs not long ago and she heard about how bad she dumped me/betrayed me and told me she called her up and reamed her out and could'nt be a friend of hers for being that way.

 

Wonder how she (my ex)felt about that and did it make her think?

[TheDovic]

Alittle off the subject but I ran into one of my exs g/fs not long ago and she heard about how bad she dumped me/betrayed me and told me she called her up and reamed her out and could'nt be a friend of hers for being that way.

 

Wonder how she (my ex)felt about that and did it make her think?

 

She probably felt pretty **** after that dude!

[mike588]

Oops, what I meant to say was that I ran into one of HER girlfriends who reamed her out

[silly_panda]

It's either you ignore the call or just pick it up... If you do pick it up, just be neutral and no blaming games and all... Be civil and end the call after she had state her business...

[M2155]

No I think it's a stupid idea. If you no longer know the number, you don't have to pretend. If you know the number and don't want to talk, don't answer. If you want to answer, treat them like any other random friend from the past and be cordial.