Sugarkane Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 When you know love doesn't conquer all. How many breakups do you have to go through? How much heartache is too much?
Buttercup84 Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I know. I am 27 and thought that I had found " the one " . I wonder if I will ever meet someone who will be right for me. I don't want to have just casual dates and get my heart broken again. While he wasn't my first heartbreak , it was sure the worst. I have friends who have been dating their now husbands for years and they are younger than me. And I just got dumped while they had their weddings. Who knows if they will be happy , I hope they will.But you do wonder when it will be your turn. And the ex who was a jerk to you and broke your heart can move on faster and they always seem to end up with someone serious. Gah.
TLCbear Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I feel the same way as you both. The last guy I was with, thought it was "it", but I was wrong. I enjoy being single and always have, but I do want a companion to share things with and this casual dating is absolutely terrible, I hate it. It's like my life is a constant merry-go-round and I can't get off. My ex before this ex, got married about a year after our breakup and I'm pretty sure my ex will end up finding another good woman he does not deserve. The only way I stay optimistic is taking it one day at a time...I really try not to think about it, I just do the things I need to do and next thing I know, I wake up and it's a new day.
BrettLost Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I'll add another vote to music. Boxing/fitness. Plus being on here like we are, knowing many others deal with it also- AND survive it. The bottom line is our lives ARE worth living, with a SO or not. Having children drives home your worth in reality too. They keep me waking up tomorrow.
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