barriob Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Is it worth it texting an ex or chasing him? i want him to realize what he lost. i was so good to him and so sopprtive and he just broke up with me out of nowhere.
Dark Phoenix Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Barriob, You've asked this question many times and have gotten the same answer every time you have asked. The answer is still NO it's not a good idea; however, with the frequency of you asking I think this may be something you will have to learn the hard way.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 In his mind, he didnt lose anything. Thats why he dumped you. he thinks he found someone better, so by dumping you, he gained alot. So no matter what you text him, hes not going to realize what he lost. As a matter of fact, he doesnt want to hear from you to try again, so everytime you contact him, he gets annoyed, and it makes him happier that he dumped you. "Jeez, she wont leave me alone, shes so annoying, im so glad I got rid of her...". You want him thinking that?
SoulFinger Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I agree with Eddie..you need to stop yourself trying so hard.I know it's not easy trust me many of us have been here before yourselves.Take stock and please be strong.
Author barriob Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 no i dont want him thinking that at all. actually, i know i deserve better and honestly i put up with so much of his stuff. i cant beleve he cant realize. so how can the tables be turned? i dont want to boost his ego and keep chasing him. i actually found out that when i would text him before, he would ignore and show his friends and tell them i cant get over him ever.
TheDovic Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Absolute worst thing you can do if you want him back!!! You have to show him your life goes on without him and you don't need him (even if this isn't true) because this is infinitely more attractive than begging and chasing!
Eddie Edirol Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Stop looking for revenge! The way to turn the tables is to grow up and learn from your mistakes. Youre going to get hurt many times in this life, you just have to makes sure you dont keep making the same mistakes. Its only your fault that you let him do what he did to you, so you cant go trying to "turn the tables".
Eddie Edirol Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Its only your fault that you let him do what he did to you.
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