ginastar Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 my ex recently contacted me after months of NC and after a year of not seeing him. ...we broke up a year and a half ago. He is still with someone else who he has been with for a little over a year. So why do you think he is contacting me and does this mean he is not in love with the new girl?
M2155 Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Guess it depends on what he had to say. He probably just wondered how you were doing. I wonder about all my exes from time to time.
Author ginastar Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 well i dont know because i never responded to him. Would you wonder about your ex and contact her if you were dating someone else ?
M2155 Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Well I have a few I consider friends now (causal friends, I don't call them up to chit-chat) that I check up on once or twice a year. But I truly am over them and wish them well. I don't know the nature of your relationship and breakup so it's possible something reminded her of you and wants to know how you're doing. Its possible things are not going well in her new relationship and she's just curious if you're available. But we could "it's possible..." for days. Do I think it's odd for someone to contact after a year? No, as long as you don't have your hopes up. Sometimes people contact you after the feelings and attachment is over because it's safe to communicate and be friends. For me, I'd be too curious to resist and I'm pretty sure I don't want my ex back so I'd respond. A year could be too soon for you to respond, if you still have feelings or think they may be stirred up, then don't.
Author ginastar Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 im female and he is male. so you think he was just curious about me or fighting w his gf?
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