arbrne_vet Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Not really sure what i am feeling. alot of anger, alot of feeling like i was taken for a ride. All I know is this: If he/she wants to be in the relationship, there will be no doubt in their minds. If he/she is not sure, then leave them. don't get drug through the mud. don't hang around in hopes they are sure they want to be with you. if they don't like the idea of being by themselves when they are "not sure" too bad. It takes TWO to be in a relationship. not 1, or 1.5 or 1.999, TWO. If they want someone else, let them go. If he/she really wants it to work, then you really give it your all. i guess that's all. not sure what is really going on in my head, exept i know i am pissed no. pissed at myself for allowing all this to happen. time to move on. don't care how many days NC it's been. just don't want to talk to her, see her, anything her. :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
lonelynyc Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 All of us are here because of this dynamic. We see our relationships as worth fighting for and our ex's just don't. For whatever reason, they never fight as hard or give things as much time as we do. I'm starting to see it as something to learn from. When it's clear that the other person just isn't as into it as I am anymore, I won't stick around. We're here because we didn't protect our hearts well enough. If the other person doesn't have that will to fight anymore, your efforts are futile.
EgoJoe Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Stay NC and keep learning! Your perspectives will continue to evolve greatly. You will come out of this bigger, better, badder and stronger! I'm rooting for you guys!
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