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LelouchIsZero Established Member

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That depends on the person...you can't generalise really.Most guys probably had more girls but like some girls there are still guys out there that haven't had many girlfriends/women.

You need to take this face value.

 

I'm well aware. I was only asking the question out of curiosity, as he said that he wouldn't trust a girl in her early 20s that claimed she was either a virgin or had only slept with 1 person, which is fair enough, I guess.

 

It all depends. Look, I know some people really do have a low number of partners well into their 20s, but that's not the norm, at least not in urban centers in the United States. I have friends who have only been with 1 or 2 people, but I know their story--one relationship for 5 to 6 years, extremely conservative religious upbringing minus the rebellion phase.

 

If you're the exception, that's good for you, I'm not always talking about YOU, just general behavior I have witnessed. My point is that as men, unless we have only been with a low number of people too, we should not judge women for having been with more than 1 or 2 guys before us. To me, it's not a deterrent. Get tested, practice safe sex, we're all adults here. Really, people.

 

I'm quite confused with what I bolded above. It was just a question, no need to get your knickers in a knot. Of course people shouldn't judge when they don't apply the same standard to their own lives -- that's double standards.

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Hello everyone,

I want to ask one question out of curiosity. Lets say your gf left you for GIGS, fell out of love, etc.. She got in another relationship for some time and is now interested in coming back to you. Lets say she found not grass is not greener on the other side or she got dumped. So my question is how many of you will be willing to take your ex-gf back?

 

The reason I am asking this question is because in most of all the LS forums I am observing a trend that most men will not take their gf once they shared bed with someone else. One person went as far as saying "a gf is like a chew gum". Will you take a chew gum from other person's mouth? Whats your opinion?

Hell no. I have too much pride to even consider that. Once they choose to walk, they better not even think of coming back. A lot of girls that I dated know this about me :)

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