She's not a citizen, a single mother..

[mr.dream merchant]

and she's catching a bitch fit because people who care about me actually wanted to know a little about her. So when the question came up, I was honest. "She's a single mother."

 

Mom: You're an idiot.

 

Friend: u a duk mayne shes just lookin for a man to take care of some otha n***** kid (Yes he really typed it like that)

 

So, being the honest guy I am, I spoke to her on their thoughts. She got pissed! At me! "Well now that my business it out there, I don't know how to feel." I apologized for speaking on information I didn't know she held so sacred..I mean, she has that she's a single mother on her dating profile.

 

She never replied.

 

All I'm saying is, if you're a woman with a **** ton of baggage (single mother, married to the baby's father for citizenship that will come in Feb 2012 then plan on divorcing him, her and the father are platonic, father doesn't pay child support..etc..) I figure, you'd at least not be a pain in the ass early in the game. So now, who knows. Maybe she won't talk to me anymore, why? I have no clue. Maybe she did have motives and fled when she realized I've got close friends and family watching out for me. Maybe she's just upset and over me.

 

All I know is, I'm not reaching out to her. I'm too good looking, young, and busy for this ****. Sigh, what the hell is wrong with women. Out.of.control.

[Hot Chick]

You were wrong to ask her her thoughts on what her friend said about single mothers.

[FitChick]

Why would she have a baby with someone she only married for citizenship? I wonder if she will indeed become a citizen. People think that if you are an illegal and marry an American you automatically can stay in the country. No. You have to go back to your country of origin and apply for a visa and wait, often many months, for it to come through. Steer clear of her. Clearly a crazy user.

[mr.dream merchant]

She ended up texting me good night, I didn't reply. I guess she randomly woke up at 4:38 in the morning, and saw that I still didn't reply, and texted me about how disappointed she was.

 

The next morning I told her basically how I felt about how she was acting, and she told me in more detail, about how upset that she was about being the reason why I was upset, which isn't how it really went down.

 

Everything was back to normal, we text cute **** back and forth. Then, about an hour before I leave work, she texts me hey and asked if I could speak, I told her later and when later came we talked on the phone. Said she was going out with the girls for a much needed drink, and that honestly, she felt like she didn't want to see me tomorrow (a date we had planned for a week) because of how things played out yesterday (big ****ing deal, right?). She asked if I was upset and would judge her, I lied, said nah it's fine do you and I'll do me. I lied again and said I was at the gym so I'd text/call/whatever her later (another lie).

 

At this point, I'm going to make her work for it. She has to show me that she wants it. I'm not chasing after this chick man, all this headache over petty ****. I imagine it would only get worse over time but I have a heart (surprise) and I would like to give her the benefit of a doubt.

 

-Her and the baby's father were dating since highschool (5 years ago, well 6..they were together for 5) and ended up with a kid together. Her and the father fell out because apparently the father wanted nothing to do with the kid, which is really hard for me to believe. He doesn't pay child support and supposedly, the only reason the kid makes it to his house is because of the father's family wanting to see the kid. I guess the father knew she wasn't a citizen, so they got married (while they were still happy together I presume) and weren't expecting a fall out. Now that they've fallen out, they're still married only for her to get her citizenship...which the father is hesitant about.

 

It's so much ****ing baggage dude. But the thing is, out of all the women I'm ****ing around with, I like this girl's personality (when she's not acting so childish, petty, and emotional...hey, I guess when she's not acting like an uber woman). We talk on the phone for hours like nothing, and I hate talking on the phone. We get along well, we mesh. But now I'm starting to see how sensitive and dramatic she is about things so I'm extremely hesitant.

 

I'm not keeping her around out of desperation, or maybe I am. Out of all the women, she's the classiest. These other women keep their legs open, it's kind of gross.