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Should I go for it or not?


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I dated a guy last year but we parted this summer when classes ended and he went back home. We pretty much decided to see how things are once fall comes. Now that fall is here, I don't know whether I should pursue him or what. We did not keep in touch when we were apart, and he has not contacted me at all since classes started. We run into each other on campus though and are friendly to each other.

 

On one hand, he has not contacted me at all since he came back, so he might not be interested. But on the other hand, he might think since I haven't bothered trying to get in touch with him now that he's back, I might not be interested in him. So should I give it a shot or not?

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Personally I would get in touch with him, something casual like grabbing coffee, and just start getting to know him again. Let it grow or die from there.

 

Just shoot him a short message saying, "Hey I saw you the other day at so-and-so and you looked great! Want to catch up over lunch at (insert place) at (insert date/time)?"

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