mrgoodcat Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 (edited) Ok, I am the guy who went after the girl who was dating someone, albeit just short-term. Recently, she gave me her number, on her own accord, and we've been texting. Yesterday, I thought she ignored my text for 3 hours and she wasn't at work. I started to think this is a cruel joke. She said she can't meet in person either, later at night. I got real negative and did what few people do: texted her saying that if this is a game, I can't do it b/c I like her too much. I was basically willing to call it off at that point, didn't care. We had some deep discussion of why I feel like that about her and at the end she said we'll fix my confusion together and I don't have to feel in doubt. Today, texted a lot- it was mutual, but again, I she came up with something, so that I don't have to pick her up from class or meet for lunch. I don't know if it's a real reason, but I don't know anything at this point. And it was her day off the work too, so I couldn't see her. She then tells me that I shouldn't worry about anything and be patient. 3...2...1....is this a ruse? I'd have to drown 1000 kittens to deserve something like that. Edited October 7, 2011 by mrgoodcat
Pasttense Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 She ignored you for a whole 3 hours!!! Sorry, but you have unrealistic expectations.
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 It's not about the hours. It's about how unsure I was of what was going on. She saw my text, I'm sure, but for some reason decided to "ignore it". And what about not being able to meet up? Something just happens to come up
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 Meh, this is not that big of a deal. I just made it out to be. She just wants to take it slow at first. Or it's a ruse. Time will tell.
Author mrgoodcat Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 UPDATE: I definitely don't think it's a ruse. I don't want to get my hopes up, but this is kinda awesome. I may be misinterpreting sh*t, but I think she hinted a few times she feels about me like I feel about her. OMG! And we're texting all night. If I can finally take her on a date, there will be some heavy-heavy kissing and hugging. This has that perfect balance of sexual desire and genuine affection. F*ck yeah.
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