noel2 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 (edited) The following is my original post "Its been 5 years since the Love of my Life and I broke up, he moved away and was with someone else for 3 years and it ended a year ago. He and I had a very passionate, fun, crazy and tumultuous relationship. We loved passionately and argued just as so. I stood by him through some tough stuff and he loved me through trying to deal with his "stuff", which I didn't always handle so well, eventually taking its toll. He hurt me terribly with the way it ended and now 5 years later we've reconnected. My sister moved within 2 miles of him, in a whole other state from where I live, it had to be coincidence because they don't know one another. Anyway, I recently went to visit and that's when we reconnected. We had 2 great days together where we pretty much decided we both still cared very deeply for one another and should keep in touch and see where it goes. He told me that the only time in his life he was truly happy was with me and I told him I'm "home" when I'm in his arms. Once I got home I text'd him and asked him if we could give it a real shot, he said back that he isn't ready at this time and that he is learning who he is, but that there isn't one day he doesn't think about me. Now he's totally cut me off from communication except the one where I said I was worried about him and please let me know you're ok, he did text back and say he was ok, but that was it. I'm so lost and so scared that I'll lose touch with him again...Any suggestions, this is the man I know I'm meant to be with, when I think of never being in his arms again, I can barely breath...." So now we have text'd back and forth and I told him I was so sorry for coming on so strong. I said please even if you don't "want" me anymore, at least be my friend. He text'd back saying How are you and that was it. Anyway, long story short *too late*, I asked him if he wanted to keep in touch, I said if not, I'll respect that, I'll even delete you from my phone so I won't be tempted, he said back, 'We can stay in touch'. My question is this..Where do I go from here? I still don't know what's wrong and why he pulled back? Edited October 6, 2011 by noel2 quoted wrong thing
Mary-Jane Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Cherche la femme? Nothing you can do now really, if he decides he wants you he will let you know. Try and move on (very hard, I know).
Author noel2 Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 I know, you're right and that's what I am doing, but it's ripping my heart out!
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