Sweetie1977 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 My girlfriend and I were out Sunday night in Tokyo and we met a group of British and Australian men, many of whom were accompanied by their Japanese girlfriends. When we were in a private sector of one particular bar, one couple of the group went “next level”. This isn’t what surprised me – or shall I say, captivated me – though…It was their interaction, demeanor and relationship in general. As this man was casually and captively looking at his football scores, the Japanese woman began to rub, unfasten and then go down on him. He didn’t even acknowledge her except for when she’d try to stop. When she did, he would force her back down with his hand on the back of her head, still his eyes on the screen. She wasn’t allowed to speak to the other men, only the women. She only knew Japanese so she didn’t speak with us, of course, but he spoke Japanese and English perfectly. He eventually “allowed” her to stop and we headed to a Karaoke bar with this group. A few of the other Japanese women spoke English okay so I loved talking to them, but I kept my eyes on this couple the whole time because I was in awe. He touched her everywhere they went. Like… Um… When they would walk he’d keep his hand on the small of her back as if it was his form of a leash. The more I write this, the more I realize how difficult it is to explain. I never did speak to him directly out of this group, but I did overhear him talk about things. His obvious view on women is that their only purpose is to serve and honor their man. He was never mean to her; he ordered her drinks and food, etc. for her (I very much love when men do that for me) as if he was her barrier from the world. He’s her shelter and in return she services him. It was amazing to witness. I love their relationship. Just witnessing a few hours of their everyday lifestyle was so… I just never seen anything like it. (well, besides in my dreams!) I just can’t get that couple out of my head now. That lifestyle seems perfect for me. I wouldn’t mind trying it out. I’m very submissive towards my men, but most are so easy going that I tend to be dominant as well. It’d be very interesting though to have a man that was completely dominant in every way. A guy that said “this is how things are going to be”. I think that as long as the two people love each other and the woman isn’t in COMPLETE fear of her man, then this type of relationship is okay. I mean, he takes care of her in every way. He takes care of her financially and gives her structure, safety and love, so she returns the favor by treating him like her King. Nice.
Els Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 (edited) People are probably going to give you flak for this, but IMO as long as they're both happy, it's all that matters. If this is what you wish, good luck in your search. It isn't finding a man who's willing to do this that's difficult, it's finding a man who won't take advantage of you in the plethora of ways this relationship dynamic allows. I do know a few people who practice this lifestyle, and while they are happy, one thing they would all agree upon is that it isn't really what it seems like in a fantasy. Edited October 6, 2011 by Elswyth
sunshinegirl Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I'm sorry... but I can't get over the fact that they did this in public. "Private sector" of a bar or not, obviously other people were in the room. I've just never been witness to anything like that. Was everyone drunk? As for it being the "perfect" relationship, let's call that your opinion, ok? More power to you for having that opinion, and wanting to find that for yourself, but in my opinion it's far from a desirable relationship dynamic.
Stung Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I'm pretty sure I remember seeing some sh*t stirring trolling under this username so it's hard to take this too seriously...however, it should be easy enough for you to find yourself a dom. Or, you could look into Gorean lifestyles, maybe Gorean slavery is for you. 1
Els Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Meh, I always thought this poster was a troll anyway, not sure why I tried to put thought into my answer. It is a bar in Tokyo, though Worse has happened in Thailand's go-go bars.
FrustratedStandards Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 And what do you mean COMPLETE fear? No partner should fear another in any way. Then again you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Maybe he is abusive and doesn't let her go out with her girlfriends or go anywhere alone. Not everything is how it appears.
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