purplepanda Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Okay so yesterday i found an old note my ex boyfriend wrote me, and it made me laugh so I sent him a text message like alofhgf;ndsjkanf. I got a new number so he didn't know who I was. When he figured it out he said "Omfg what's up???" and "How have you been???" When he uses more than one ? then I know he's really wanting to know. It turns out that yesterday he and his girlfriend broke up, mutually... How weird is that????? I think it might be a sign, but I don't know. I'm so confused. I've loved him for two years, and he's the only one I've ever truly cared about; he knows me better than anyone else. He called me and we talked for 3 hours, even when I was in the shower, he was in a hurry for me to call him back, which was weird. He called me my old nickname once, and kind of acted funny but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. He was very upset out of nowhere and called me late and I think it was their song that was playing. I didn't know what to do, and he apologized for all the things that he did to me, but I told him that I don't accept his apology. I just feel....different than I did before we talked. It's so weird. What is going on?
Emilia Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 He is in an emotional state because of his breakup. That's not a reliable indicator of how he thinks of you in his more relaxed/normal state of mind. He is probably confused and he needs emotional support. He isn't in the right place to jump into a relationship with you
leftfordead2 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Okay so yesterday i found an old note my ex boyfriend wrote me, and it made me laugh so I sent him a text message like alofhgf;ndsjkanf. I got a new number so he didn't know who I was. When he figured it out he said "Omfg what's up???" and "How have you been???" When he uses more than one ? then I know he's really wanting to know. It turns out that yesterday he and his girlfriend broke up, mutually... How weird is that????? I think it might be a sign, but I don't know. I'm so confused. I've loved him for two years, and he's the only one I've ever truly cared about; he knows me better than anyone else. He called me and we talked for 3 hours, even when I was in the shower, he was in a hurry for me to call him back, which was weird. He called me my old nickname once, and kind of acted funny but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. He was very upset out of nowhere and called me late and I think it was their song that was playing. I didn't know what to do, and he apologized for all the things that he did to me, but I told him that I don't accept his apology. I just feel....different than I did before we talked. It's so weird. What is going on? How did he find out that it was you from that gibberish text?
oaks Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I think it might be a sign, Really? A sign of what? In the real world we call that a coincidence. And how on earth do you get to the point where you think he wants you back from any of that? Are you sure it isn't you who wants him back?
snowflakes88 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 He was eager to talk to you because he's going through a breakup and is lonely. Nothing you posted sounds like he wants to get back together.
Author purplepanda Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 He asked who it was, then I didn't answer. I began to give him hints... on the third hint he guessed who it was.
Author purplepanda Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 He called me at midnight before I went to sleep and said that I'm going to meet someone perfect for me.. Twice he said, "You might even already know him.." WTF?
Lucky_One Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 He called you? So why didn't you ask him what he meant?
CocoaBrown Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Sounds like you might still have feelings for him but at this point he is fresh out of a break up so at this point anything that happens will be on a "rebound" level. Be prepared to possibly get hurt if you get involved with him. Most people end up still communicating with a new ex on some level and sometimes even go back to them a few times. Be careful.
azsinglegal Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 He was eager to talk to you because he's going through a breakup and is lonely. Nothing you posted sounds like he wants to get back together. If he wanted you back, he would've contacted you instead of vice versa. IMO he's looking for rebound sex. Don't do it. Don't get emotional.
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