Dazdnconfuzed Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 What would make a woman so demented that she would tell you that she loves you and let other people know how much she cares about you play with your mind and hurt you, only for me to let go and say good bye then for her two weeks later run up to me at a mutual party, take me outside for 3 hours and talk about everything... Went around in circles... only to tell me she loves me and wants to put her feelings away for now, then kisses me for the first time in front of my friend and hugs me like she is holding on for dear life only to do the same thing and vanish once again. Doesnt respond to my texts, doesnt answer my phone calls which I only called twice and after no returned calls I never rang again... same with texts. Then after a month of NC I called only to have her number changed without even letting me know... Here is the kicker - she knows I have a blog and she checks it everyday sometimes 10 times a day. WTF? She swore up and down how much she cares and loves me but again actions speak louder then words, I said screw it once again, but stalking my blog for months several times a day? At one point I left it blank for two weeks and she only upped the blog hits... I just dont understand and am hating life right now...
Lucky_One Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Do you write about her in the blog? Sounds like she is just wanting to either get validation that she hurt you or damage control that you aren't slagging her all over kingdom come.
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 She sounds like she's mentally disturbed. Why would you want to be around someone like that? I'd run as far away as I could if I were you.
mrgoodcat Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 That's not good. Horrible actually. She could possibly be very crazy.
filani Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Dude !!! It is so obvious that she is playing mind games on you and what's worse you're letting her get away with it Usually when people say F**k it! I'm done with this $hit ,They say or do it WITH CONVICTION which is what i feel you lack in this scenario. Blow her off man and this time like you really mean it.
Nexus One Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 It's possible that she's playing mind games with you. Whatever it is she's doing, it's not making you happy. You're not a toy.
Author Dazdnconfuzed Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 It's possible that she's playing mind games with you. Whatever it is she's doing, it's not making you happy. You're not a toy. It has to be mind games Nexus, I do not see any other logical answer but what would make a person go out of there way to mess with you when you have been nothing but understanding and forgiving... To answer your questions, yes the blog was about me and her when it started but I found a hidden talent of writing and enjoyed it so I continued. It morphed into just me writing about various things going on with me and just talking about life in general. We worked together till a month ago, every time I left her go and talked to other women she would rage with jealousy, always said she wanted to be my friend but that never worked on her end, I like an idiot agreed. Today alone I got 3 hits from her... I pretty much posted that I am done, hopefully she gets the point.
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