antz2411 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I will dispense this little nugget of wisdom I have come to realize when it comes to finding who you want to be with. This goes for the ladies too. It is only a theory mind you. And theories need to be tested vigorously. I feel mine can stand up to any test and can be used for any relationship circumstance. It can be summed up in 2 words. LET GO. LET GO of how you feel. LET GO of what you think she feels. LET GO of what you think you feel. LET GO of everything but the desire to be… WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. Simple huh. I AM saying that you cannot control the actions of another person unless they are of a weak mind; or do not love themselves enough to know who is good for them. How do you find someone who wants to be with you? Ask her out? Ask her out again. Listen and observe. She says yes. Great. She says no. That’s ok too. She continues to flirt, ask again. She said YES! Go out and have fun. Ask for seconds. She says no again, don’t sweat it. Just LET GO. If she wants to be with you, she will MAKE time in her life for it too happen on both yours AND hers schedules. This is a partnership right? It takes two to play. True love knows no bounds right? That is too "simplistic" you say? "It sounds like you are both trying and not trying to meet someone. That’s impossible." Which comes to my other maxim in life when it comes to finding the woman you want, the life you want. DIG IN. Lenny Kravits knows what he sings about. Listen to those lyrics. They ring true for love and life. DIG IN and never give up. DIG IN and soon you’ll have a good time. Letting go completely is probably the most difficult thing any one MIGHT be able to accomplish in life. I struggled with it everyday. I am no more immune from "falling off the path" than the rest of you here. Emotions, our hearts and our minds are the reasons we trip up. But my goal is to get back up so fast, that if anyone saw, I could say to them I never fell and they would believe me. just some words of enlightenment for you guys still hoping for a second chance or whatever you want to call it.
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