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What do you do when they lie and turn everyone against you?


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I was talking to a friend who's going through a separation the other day about this. Like my ex for example, who painted me black and turned everyone against me. Even though he was the dumper and dumped me by text, out of the blue

! My friend told me that I shouldn't have gone NC on them. That I should've kept being friends, but I don't know they proved to be pretty two faced.

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I was talking to a friend who's going through a separation the other day about this. Like my ex for example, who painted me black and turned everyone against me. Even though he was the dumper and dumped me by text, out of the blue

! My friend told me that I shouldn't have gone NC on them. That I should've kept being friends, but I don't know they proved to be pretty two faced.

 

Say nothing, your real friends will know the truth and stick around.

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I'm always the bad guy (girl) to my commo law hubby from day one for the last seven years he done many many things that were inappropriate in our relationship but always had a way making it I made him do it exmple dating sites when he was out of town working for 4 years. He always called his family and complained about me so to this very day no one speaks to me b/c i'm the bad one His friends don't bother to call the house only his cell to chat I wish sometimes I could speak to them about the BS he is handing them but what would it do blood is thicker than water. So what do I do let it lie and try to move on He left me again last night and I'm tired and a part of me is wondering what in the heck did I do this time. Anyway sorry to rant just let it lie no matter what the other says it's only one side you know the truth and try to be as happy as you can be with whats going on I'm trying right now

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This happened to me too. My wife was badmouthing me to her friends and family all the time.

When I had the chance to meet everyone I had to work around a lot of $hit testing but when it came down to knowing me, I was so sweet and giving that it made her look bad for lying about me.

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To answer this question in the subject heading:

 

the REAL and TRUE friends, people who know your inner spirit, will stick by you.

 

the others - prone to swallowing bull without even taking the time to hear the other side of the story - are not worth your time or your emotional investment in terms of worrying about what they think. If they're that easily swayed, then the value of their friendship was thin to begin with.

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Still don't understand why everyo e takes the cheaters side.

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Your true friends will stick by you and he will be exposed for what he is. My ex tried to do it with me and eventually her actions showed her true colors.

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How did they find put? They may never find out, I never speak to any of them at all.

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How did they find put? They may never find out, I never speak to any of them at all.

 

She went completely insane and it was obvious to everybody. That might not happen with him but people show their true colors sooner or later.

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