Sugarkane Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 After being dumped by text after a year, by an assclown. Whenever I've been dumped, soon after the dumper is shoving their new relationship in my face. Mind you even though they're the dumper. I still think somethimes what is the point in doing the right thing?
LelouchIsZero Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Whats the point in doing the wrong thing? Essentially, if there is no point in "doing the right thing", then the way they acted to you is justified. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Author Sugarkane Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 I do treat others the way I want to be treated, yet many people don't do this. I always did do the right thing, yet my ex still turned everyone against me. I was a good gf and never cheated, yet I got dumped cruelly.
Author Sugarkane Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 Even though my ex was the dumper, he kicked me when I was down. See my post: my ex never cared.
fuzzbella Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 It might be tempting to do the wrong thing and to hit them the way they hit you, but where does that leave you? Your still hurting and alone, it doesnt solve the problem. I think moving on and been actually happy for once is the greatest revenge. Also if you do the wrong thing people tend to use that one little slip up against you.
betterdeal Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I really couldn't give a hoot if my ex sees me with someone or not. I'd also rather not abuse someone to get at my ex.
ScienceGal Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I'd like my ex to see me with someone else too. I want him to see me happy without him. But, I want it to be legitimate. I want to really be happy and not just for show, since that wouldn't help me at all. When it happens, they won't be wondering if its for real (as i am wondering about his new woman) In the end it is about you. I am sorry that you're still hurting, so am I. I've revisited the thought of anger and revenge too. Let those feelings pass by. there is someone out there better for you
YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Sugarkane, My ex (dumper) just saw me this past weekend with another girl (you just recently commented on my thread) and nothing has come of it so far. I felt happy that she did but I tried to avoid her as much as possible because I didn't want to shove it in her face. She still kept looking over and our eyes did meet a few times (she looked sad). She dumped me though and there is really nothing else I can do. I am sure your time will come but after it happens you will still miss your ex because in a perfect scenario you wished you were still with them. Trust me I hope she calls me one day and admits what she felt last weekend but it hasn't happened and will probably not happen.
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