spiritofjosh Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I'll try and be brief. My good friends started hanging out with this girl that I said was cute, I added her on facebook at the time and she liked some of my photos and "poked" me on there. But I didn't try talking to her bc I thought my friends may of been interested. Time passed and nothing ever happened between them they were just good friends so I told the one that I've thought she was cute for a while now, he told her and she said "really" and his advice was to talk to her. I was shy and didn't really do much about it but last sunday I ended up hanging out with her and my friend who I told I thought she was cute. He texted me at one point saying "she says you're cute and she wants you to talk to her" so I got friendly and she drove me to my car later on, nothing big. The next day I looked at my facebook and she was like hey whats up etc and I asked her number. She's been texting me all day since, now being late wednesday night. Only time she doesn't is while she's at work, she even pokes me like 3 times a day on facebook. While we talk she always asks about me, like what songs i really like from this band, what movies I like etc. She said to hang out with her and the aforementioned mutual friend again which I complied. Now it seems like she's interested right? Well I ask because a few of my guy friends have tried talking to her in the past and it seems like they always like her but nothing comes of it. I dunno if its because she's just not interested or if she's just a natural flirt, hence why I'm suspicious that maybe she's that way with me? I'm very modest but when it comes to my friends she knows, I'm more interesting to say the least, I'm also a few years older and I'm more unique I guess you can say. So hopefully that's going for me but any advice on how to really test the waters? Or perhaps signs she's just a flirt. I've also asked if she's "easy" and apparently not in the slightest so that's also a good sign for me. Thanks and hopefully this wasnt too long winded.
Shaun-Dro Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I'll try and be brief. My good friends started hanging out with this girl that I said was cute, I added her on facebook at the time and she liked some of my photos and "poked" me on there. But I didn't try talking to her bc I thought my friends may of been interested. Time passed and nothing ever happened between them they were just good friends so I told the one that I've thought she was cute for a while now, he told her and she said "really" and his advice was to talk to her. I was shy and didn't really do much about it but last sunday I ended up hanging out with her and my friend who I told I thought she was cute. He texted me at one point saying "she says you're cute and she wants you to talk to her" so I got friendly and she drove me to my car later on, nothing big. The next day I looked at my facebook and she was like hey whats up etc and I asked her number. She's been texting me all day since, now being late wednesday night. Only time she doesn't is while she's at work, she even pokes me like 3 times a day on facebook. While we talk she always asks about me, like what songs i really like from this band, what movies I like etc. She said to hang out with her and the aforementioned mutual friend again which I complied. Now it seems like she's interested right? Well I ask because a few of my guy friends have tried talking to her in the past and it seems like they always like her but nothing comes of it. I dunno if its because she's just not interested or if she's just a natural flirt, hence why I'm suspicious that maybe she's that way with me? I'm very modest but when it comes to my friends she knows, I'm more interesting to say the least, I'm also a few years older and I'm more unique I guess you can say. So hopefully that's going for me but any advice on how to really test the waters? Or perhaps signs she's just a flirt. I've also asked if she's "easy" and apparently not in the slightest so that's also a good sign for me. Thanks and hopefully this wasnt too long winded. What kind of advice are you looking for? The cute girl that you like clearly feels the same way and you're asking us if she "seems" interested?
Author spiritofjosh Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 Albeit it's somewhat hidden amongst the two paragraphs but alas, here are a few actual questions, perhaps next time I'll post them separately. 1. "I dunno if its because she's just not interested or if she's just a natural flirt, hence why I'm suspicious that maybe she's that way with me?" 2. "So hopefully that's going for me but any advice on how to really test the waters?" 3. "Or perhaps signs she's just a flirt?"
Johnny85 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Ask her out! I am pretty sure she will say yes. Oh, and don't forget to se up a second date (at the end of the first date) and kiss her.
Author spiritofjosh Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 I'm gonna feel things out for a few days first. I'm hoping for the best, I just worry it's too good to be true and I'll just be the "oh he's cool, I like him as a friend" type deal. Or if she just does this with any newer guy she talks to, which I was wondering if there were signs I could look for as I asked in my first post.
ChessPieceFace Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 She's interested. I have no further advice.
Author spiritofjosh Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 Thank you for the responses, I guess time will tell the rest.
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