nowwhatnow Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 so it has taken me a long time trying to accept its over (its been just over a year) and while i still have feelings for the old him, im accepting that i do not like the new him. i have not spoken to him in almost a year! i think i want to start meeting other people (i have been approached before but i was not ready), but now that i am ready, how do i start dating? the relationship i was in before was really intense and we practically lived together for a couple months. how do i start again after everything i have gone through? i think i wanna start trying, again, but i do not know how.
HollyHoliday Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 The way to to begin again is to dictate in your mind the exact type of relationship that you want. I was in your shoes too, a relationship that was just way too intense and we spent all of our free time together. Maybe you want a casual relationship, or one where you each have your own lives and come together when you can. Make the rules for yourself first, and stick to them! That way, you know exactly what you are getting into. Good luck!
EmperorR Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 it takes time, there is no set time for anyone everyone is different. It's been like a yer and 6 months for me but because I still hav to see her, I get set back time and time again
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