YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 The other night my ex girlfriend (she was the dumper) keptlooking over watching what I was doing with another girl I am currently dating.She seemed sad and at one point seemed to walk out when she saw my arm aroundthe new girl I am dating. She also was walking towards us once and turned awayas if she didn't see us and started playing with her hair. She is 22, I am 25;this happened at a bar. My ex girlfriend dumped me 2 months ago after a short 2 month longrelationship. The relationship seemed perfect and she dumped me out of nowheresaying she thought "something was missing" and feeling ourrelationship evolved into friendship. She said I did nothing wrong, so it was ashock to me at the time. We stayed in low contact and I pleaded for over amonth (fought for the relationship) but it didn't work out. She told me 2 weekspreviously to this encounter for me to stop texting her and that she no longerhad feelings for me. She also told a friend she has moved on. I haven't spokento her since she pretty much told me to not contact her again. If she really has moved on why would she be so curious to see what I was doingwith the other girl I am dating? Why does she even care?
HollyHoliday Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 From the sound of it, the only reason she seems to care is because it seems like you have moved on. No one wants to know that someone they were dating moved on, and it is right in front of their face. It is an uncomfortable situation, but good for you for getting back out there!
nature Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 She's jealous. She probably figured you would chase her and work hard to get her back. The others are correct. She is probably shocked that you moved on so quick, and she may be regretting her decision to break up with you. Sounds to me like you still have feelings for her if you are even questionng her watching you and the new girl, and noticed her watching you.
Sugarkane Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I really envy when this happens to someone. I really want this to happen to m, but it's always been the dumper doing full PDAs in my face. Even though they were the dumper. Especially the jerk exes that dumped me by text.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 She cares because you looked happy and you looked like you forgot about her. You also moved on before she did, good for you. She thought you werent attractive anymore and got her ego burned when another woman found you attractive. Thats how women like you when they think other women will like you, and even more when they see it first hand. Your ex also probably dumped you for someone else, but that new guy dumped her, and seeing you with a new woman made her extra lonely. You won my friend!
Author YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 Hey guys thanks for your responses. I just don't know what to do at the moment. I tried for over a month to get her back and nothing worked. She even begged me to stop contacting her, saying it wasn't fair to her anymore; so this is out of the question. I just don't understand why she wouldn't contact me if she still feels this way. Wouldn't she try to regain back the power? I am not officially in a relationship with the new girl, we are taking it slow. I obviously still have feelings for the ex.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 Becvause whatever reason she broke it off with you still stands with her. Could be anything, shes not into you because you were a rebound, youre too nice to her, youre boring, bad hygene, not fun, she has a mental disorder, she wants to date around, could be anything. But bottom line is she doesnt see you as dating material anymore, dont worry about her. You moved on to a new woman, focus on her.
Recommended Posts